The Tarot 10’s in Love

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The Tarot 10’s in Love

The 10’s are all related to the epic Wheel of Fortune. Hence endings and new beginnings are indicated. The battle between permanence and impermanence is in full swing and change always wins.  There are opportunities both for shutting down and for expansion. So what do the 10’s mean in love and romance readings? 10 of Wands. You or your partner are feeling burdened or even oppressed. For too long now have you been pushing your own needs to one side to accommodate the needs of your partner or other family members, without receiving enough support in return. Your life force has no way to go and avoiding a confrontation is becoming impossible. It can, of course, be avoided through communication but with the 10 of Wands, the situation most likely arose because the two of you didn’t manage a way of communicating your needs to begin with. So buckle down and prepare to clear the air with some relationship drama. Just remember: better out than in. Perhaps you’ll come out the other side… or maybe you’ll come to realise that it’s over. Know that you did all you could and don’t feel bad about getting angry. It happens to the best of us. If you survive as a couple on the other side of a 10 of Wands combustion, you really do need to find a way of communicating and making sure that things are fair and everyone’s needs considered and met – otherwise you’ll just start the build-up for the next blow-out… no matter how good the make-up sex was! In a reading for a single person, this could mean that you’ve worn yourself out having a bit too much ‘fun.’  Physical exhaustion could be a sign that you need to slow down on the partying. Look for the 7 or 3 of Cups nearby. It could also be an indication that you are burdening yourself with unrealistic expectations of a prince charming ideal that doesn’t exist. The dreamy Page/Princess of Cups together with the 10 of Wands is an example of this. Either way it’s always good to remember to let go and leg God when this card shows up. You’ve been pushing just a bit too hard. Sexually, this card warns you to be very aware of and state your own likes and needs or your energy will get seriously depleted. A reversal of this card usually means that you are coming out the other side after a tough time. You can let go of your burdens and relax. The next Ace of Wands is waiting just around the corner… 10 of Cups. To a couple the 10 of Cups signifies relationship bliss and family happiness. You look to the future together and start a family. You welcome new children into your life. Everything is pretty hunky dory which makes it a bit boring to talk about. But...

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