How to Know if Letting Go of a Lover is for Your Highest Good

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How to Know if Letting Go of a Lover is for Your Highest Good

Letting go of someone you still love is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do in life. Many find it so difficult that they would rather stay and suffer instead. Because let’s face it, most uf us are decent people and decent people do not enjoy breaking the heart of another person… And when it is the heart of someone we love on some level, it hurts acutely because we feel their pain as our own (especially true for the HSP). There are probably as many...

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Givers, Takers and Matchers in Love and in the Tarot

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Givers, Takers and Matchers in Love and in the Tarot

In all forms of relating, people can be divided into three main categories: Givers, Takers and Matchers. Apparently, according to Adam Grant, the ones who have the highest success rates in terms of establishing happy long-term relationships are also the ones with the highest number of failed past relationships. Once the minority Giver finally(!) learns to navigate a world full of takers and matchers, they have a better than average chance to experience happiness in love....

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22 Ways He May Not Cherish You And What To Do About It

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The Major Arcana cards bring us the 22 Big Lessons that all of us have to navigate on the road to individuation and ego transcendence. Each of these lessons also come up in our most intimate relationship, where what is often hidden deep inside us is mirrored back to us through the words and deeds of our lovers. The main thing to bear in mind that there is no need to take any of the pain and rejection that comes with our love lessons personally. Until we are ready for Big...

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7 Tips for DIY Love Tarot Readings

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7 Tips for DIY Love Tarot Readings

If you’ve done more than half a dozen readings for yourself, you probably know by now that Love Tarot readings are the most difficult ones to do. Any time at all that we are attached to the outcome, it gets trickier because we tend to see what we want to see… either that or we catostrophise! When the reading is about the one we love (or lust after!), we would have to reach the spiritual maturity of a Zen Master to not be at least a wee bit attached to outcome....

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Top 10 Tarot Cards & Combinations for Reconciliation

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Someone asked me on Twitter the other day what the main cards for reconciliation were. When doing a reading to see if reconciliation with an ex will be possible, the following cards and combinations usually indicate success: The 2 of Cups, is always a good sign of reconciliation, especially together with The Lovers, The Sun or The World (very ‘happily ever after’). This is the ultimate ‘love reciprocation’ card.         The 3 of...

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