The Ultimate Guide to Manifesting True Love

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The Ultimate Guide to Manifesting True Love

  Are you single and looking? Are you ready for a real Soul Mate or Twin Flame relationship? Do you love the Tarot? If you answered yes to all three questions, this is the post for you! I’ll take you through the simple (I didn’t say easy!) steps, using your favourite tool to manifest your best relationship ever! It’s a bold claim to make but I know it works because it worked for me. I finally met Mr Right at age 44 and I have worked through all the steps listed below myself. We recently got married and I have never been happier! BE HAPPY IN YOUR OWN SKIN FIRST Make sure you are happy in your own skin. A really good relationship starts with a happy and contented you. Use the Single and Happy Tarot Spread to lay a great foundation. Once you are happy in your own skin, it is so much easier to start expecting good things to come naturally into your life. You will find yourself a magnet for positive people and that is the kind of person you want to be with forever, right? 1. The Sun – You! Your vitality levels 2. Mercury – Your self-talk 3. Venus – Friendships 4. Mars – Opposition 5. Jupiter – Career opportunities/Good fortune 6. Saturn – Your obligations 7. Uranus – Unexpected future events 8. Neptune – Your dreams, goals and aspirations 9. Pluto – What is changing/needs to change 10. The Moon – Emotional challenge (stands between you and being 100% happy). This card, Pluto (change) and Mercury (self-talk) form the key to unlocking the missing ingredient for complete and total self-fulfilment. WHO DO YOU SEE YOURSELF WITH? Know what to look for in a partner – it may not be what you think! We all have a type but I promise you, if I had a penny for every time someone told me “He wasn’t really my type” about the guy they ended up marrying… Check what advice Spirit has for you in terms of the qualities you need to look out for in a long-term partner with the Future Soul Mate Lover Tarot Spread! Before you start shuffling the cards you need to choose your significator cards. This spread is different because it requires two significators: one Court Card that you choose for yourself based on how you perceive your own personality and one Major Arcana Soul Card. (You will find out how to calculate the latter HERE.) The reason for choosing two significators is that they carry different meanings. If the Court Card surfaces in the ‘love pile’ then you will be in a relationship with someone that you do not have a karmic/past life connection with. If the Major Arcana card surfaces first, then it will be with someone from your soul group. Whether or not this is someone you have already met in this...

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Ritual for Manifesting Your Soul Mate Lover

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Ritual for Manifesting Your Soul Mate Lover

  Being single and looking can easily leave you feeling a bit lost. Online dating is a jungle and you quickly get fed up with Mr/Ms Wrong or Mr/Ms Right Now… when all you want is your Soul Mate lover… someone who will love you unconditionally, quirks and all, for who you are and that you will love the same way, with all your heart… forever. Here’s the good news: Your angels want exactly the same thing for you! I have channelled this ritual just for you (I was literally told to sit down and type this ritual out… and it just poured out of me!), to help you invoke the power of the Seven Angels of the Week for manifesting soul mate love. This is an angel magick candle ritual that you do for seven consecutive days and can repeat as needed: Monday – Archangel Gabriel – Light a white candle and ask for all cynicism caused by past emotional hurt and betrayal to be washed away. Visualise your aura being cleansed by a brilliant white light… watch any barbs from ex’s being unhooked… any cords cut loose… Ask to hear your inner intuitive guidance more clearly and also to receive dream messages about your future soul mate lover. Tuesday – Archangel Camael – Light a red candle and ask for a blessing of passion and sexual attraction with ONLY the right One. Ask for this to begin now so that you may be easily magnetised toward each other and have a sign of instant chemistry as well as emotional affinity when you first meet. Wednesday – Archangel Raphael – You will need two candles today. Light a yellow candle and ask for joyful/playful connection through the ether so that you may begin enjoying each other on a soul level already in dreamtime. Next, light a green candle for heart healing of any remaining scars caused by ex lovers. As you do this, visualise the surface of your heart being washed clean, becoming entirely smooth, soft and ready for new love. The wisdom of the lessons remain, none of the hurt does. Thursday – Archangel Sachiel – Light a dark blue or purple candle. Invoke the wisdom and of Sachiel to recognise any opportunities that come your way that might lead you closer to your soul mate lover. Ask him to bless your joint life path and make it one that enables you to serve God as one. The sign he will give you for the right One is that you will feel ‘luckier’ together than on your own. Friday – Archangel Anael – Light a pink candle and invite Anael to open your heart in meditation to create a strong connection between your heart chakra and the heart chakra of your future soul mate lover. Know that this bond is eternal. Bless a piece of rose quartz crystal as a reminder of this connection and carry...

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The Karmic Relationship Tarot Spread

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The Karmic Relationship Tarot Spread

If you have ever had that instant connection with someone and just known that they are someone you have past life history with, this spread is for you. Chances are that you crossed paths again because there is a karmic bond between you and you were meant to meet up again. Karmic bonds are taken into consideration when souls plan for their next incarnation. Scenarios are created to help both parties resolve their karma, whether it be for recompense, retribution or simply to finally let someone go. I wrote an article about more types of personal karma and how to read on it with the Tarot last week. I feel that often, there is a need to go more in-depth with relationship karma than with the simple spread I created last week, so I have adapted another Tarot spread I like to use for relationships to include karmic markers. But before I get into that, I would like to give you a few pointers about karmic relationships in general. Here are some common signs that the person you are inquiring about is a karmic soulmate: * Instant recognition * Knowing things about the other person that they have not yet told you * Tingling in your aura, especially the crown chakra * The other person acting as a catalyst for great changes in your life * A strong need to be near the other person * Either feeling as if anything is possible if you two could just be together OR an urge to get as far away as possible yet at the same time being irresistibly drawn to them In Astrology, a karmic relationship where the other person has the ‘upper hand’ is shown by their Pluto aspecting one of your inner planets. Harsh aspects between their Saturn and your Sun (or vice versa) is usually a sign of tough karmic lessons. While Astrology is GREAT for showing us how people are linked karmically, I feel the Tarot has the upper hand when it comes to pointers about how to work this karma out… so let’s have a look at an in-depth Tarot spread I have created for that very reason. My preference is to work with mixed oracles for this spread but feel free to try it with only Tarot if that is all you have. I used three cards from Past Life Oracle because it is spookily accurate and one card from the Higher Intuitions Oracle – my favourite for positive transformation of any situation. The Tarot cards are from the Waite Smith Tarot deck. NB. This spread is only to be used when you are absolutely certain that you have a karmic bond with someone. Bear in mind that this is quite and  advance way of reading the cards so don’t despair it is beyond your reach if you are a novice reader. Persevere and you will get there! How to...

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Lenormand Meanings for Love & Relationships

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Lenormand Meanings for Love & Relationships

The Lenormand system of divination based on playing cards keeps gaining popularity so it seems timely to introduce these cards here, with meanings that are specific to love & relationships. If there is an interest in studying the Lenormand cards, please let me know in the comments below. I’m quite happy to add Lenormand card meanings and combinations to our vast and ever-expanding metaphysical online library. The following keywords relating specifically to love and relationships are meant as additions to the standard nouns and adjectives for each card (2-3 of each), so if you haven’t sorted out what those are yet, I suggest you do so first.  There are quite a few free Lenormand learning resources you can Google if you do not wish to invest in a book.   I recommend downloading Sandy Cristels FREE Interactive Lenormand for learning purposes. For those of you looking for something to hold in your hands, I recommend The Enchanted Lenormand kit which includes a phenomenal introduction to the Lenormand by one of the main authorities on card divination, Caitlín Matthews, as well as a pretty and easy-to-read-with Lenormand deck. Please bear in mind that the Lenormand cards are always read together with other cards. Each card is a ‘cipher’ with different possible meanings and gains its precise meaning in synthesis with other cards. The cards also operate on the near vs. far principle and the meanings change accordingly. It is a complex system to learn so be patient with yourself and allow your learning to take as long as it takes. It’s all good as long as you’re having fun! LENORMAND KEYWORDS FOR LOVE & RELATIONSHIP READINGS 1. RIDER (9 of Hearts) – a young & energetic lover, flirtatious young man, news related to a lover 2. CLOVER (6 of Diamonds) – getting lucky (pulling, one night stand), taking a chance on someone new 3. SHIP (10 of Spades) – yearning for love, overseas lover, love cruise (honeymoon on water) 4. HOUSE (King of Hearts) – a feeling of ‘coming home,’ settling down, stability in love 5. TREE (7 of Hearts) – love prospers, healthy connection, lasting love, rooted love, lover is a healer 6. CLOUDS (King of Clubs) – depression threatens love, misunderstandings, pessimism about romance 7. SNAKE (Queen of Clubs) – a narcissistic or deceptive lover, cheating, playing mind-games, jealousy 8. COFFIN (9 of Diamonds) – end of a love affair/relationship, stagnancy, death of a lover 9. BOUQUET (Queen of Spades) – the importance of gift giving in love, reciprocal and enjoyable connection, beauty 10. SCYTHE (Jack of Diamonds) – sudden (unexpected) break-up, angry or mean-spirited lover, being on a break 11. WHIP (Jack of Clubs) – sexual intercourse, BDSM, healthy libido, physical abuse 12. BIRDS (7 of Diamonds) – internet dating, sexting, phone sex, romantic text messages, a chatty couple 13. CHILD (Jack of Spades) – innocence, virginity, puppy love, naïve lover 14. FOX (9...

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The Karmic Cards and Their Meanings for Love & Romance Tarot Readings

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In last week’s 11 Keys – An Advanced Love Tarot Spread, I briefly mentioned the ‘Karmic Cards’ and I was asked by a couple of people to extrapolate on this. Essentially, these are the cards that indicate issues either carrying over from a past life (or many past lives) or lessons pre-agreed upon in the Life Between Lives. For those of you interested in exploring Life Between Lives, I recommend the book Journey of Souls by Dr Michael Newton. A while back, I created a Past Life Connection Tarot spread. Before laying the cards out for this type of reading, I like to do a 9 Square to see if there is an indication of a past life connection. I want at least two of the cards listed below to show up. The High Priestess corresponds to the Moon which shows what soul energy a person is carrying forward into this incarnation from past lives. Ancient subconscious patterns may be at work when this card shows up. Surrounding cards reveal more. Look out for at least one other karmic card to confirm that this concerns a shared past life in a relationship reading. The Wheel of Fortune can indicate a karmic connection and cycles of reincarnating together. It’s a sign of belonging to the same soul group or circle of souls that keep showing up together on earth to learn pre-agreed upon lessons as well as to resolve any lingering karma. It’s a neutral karmic indicator which means that you and the other person are simply here to grown and learn together. Justice indicates a need to rebalance karma. If this card shows up with one other karmic card as well as the Hierophant, marriage between you and this soul mate is literally in the cards. The Devil could mean that one of you carries a heavy karmic debt toward the other person. The expression in the current lifetime usually creates a pattern of co-dependency to make sure these two are ‘glued together’ until the issue is forgiven/resolved one way or another. It can feel almost impossible to leave a relationship like this. However, there is no need to feel trapped. The door swings open quite easily once we forgive the other person. The Tower is akin to The Devil but usually carries more physical violence. Once it’s done, it’s done. You can’t escape it but it doesn’t tend to drag on like The Devil karmic space. The Moon is another neutral Past Life connection indicator but it shows an ancient connection with many shared past lives and coming closer to having resolved karmic issues. However, as you push toward the finish line, the challenges get tougher, so the relationship connection/issues indicated by this card can be tainted by deep fear. Judgement indicates that you have a karmic relationship with someone who is important in terms of your individual life...

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