Twin Flame Signs

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Twin Flame Signs

7 Signs that you are ready to meet your Twin Flame: You have just completed a major life lesson which allows you to radiate your True Self into the world from the core. You are so devoted to serving God that if you had to choose between being with a lover and service, you would choose service 10 times out of 10. You have stopped looking and trust completely in Divine Timing. You realise that you and your Twin Flame are not special or unique but that every single soul on the planet has the same potential. You know that all souls are part of the One Soul and belong to each other. In other words, your reality has shifted into 5D. You are happy and at peace. You are starting to sense the presence of your Twin Flame, like a glowing ember of joy deep within your heart. 10 Signs that you are in a Twin Flame Relationship: You both just knew from when you first met. You have a single, shared life purpose. You remember shared past lives. You quickly and effortlessly clear all past life karma. You experience Divine Union when you make love to each other. You are able to experience Divine Union on the astral plane and by connecting mentally/psychically. People around you acknowledge that you are a team and are drawn to you. Whether near or far, you constantly feel each other’s presence. You don’t talk about being Twin Flames with other people but let your actions do the talking. You are at peace with your purpose and each...

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The Soul Mate Excuse

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The Soul Mate Excuse

“But he is my soul mate!” “I can’t be with anyone else, because we are Twin Flames and have important work to do!” “He’s just on the run because he’s so afraid of the intensity of our connection. That often happens in soul mate relationships, you see.” “He’s my Twin Flame and just needs to work through some stuff, then my life will begin.” “He’s treating me like crap but we are soul mates and I think I’m burning off some bad karma.” “If I only try harder, I’ll be able to read his mind like a proper soul mate should.” “I will never experience love like this again because he was my soul mate.” Trust me, I’ve heard them all and then some! Here’s the thing ladies: He’s just not that into you if he is a) not there or b) not returning your messages or c) treating you like crap… So tell me again how it matters that he is your Soul Mate/Twin Flame? Let’s apply some logic to these situations. Yes, we have brains for a reason. While we should indeed follow our hearts in love, we are not called upon to abandon reason. In love, the decisions we make need to be aligned between heart, mind and gut in order to yield lasting and mutually beneficial results. First of all, can you even be sure that he is a soul mate? What makes you so sure? Fair enough if you have past life memories of sharing one or more lives with this person and you both instantly knew that you were soul mates. But if it’s above average chemistry it could be pheromones, a cheeky smile, a washboard stomach or wicked tongue action rather than a true soul mate connection. Cupid is funny like that. Secondly, even if you have shared past lives together and come from the same soul group… so what? You can’t know exactly why your paths have crossed in this incarnation and you have LOTS of soul mates… You won’t sleep with or be in a relationship with every single one of them – not even the eligible ones that you have chemistry with. A soul mate is just someone you have a past with and that you keep bumping into on the other side in the life between lives. There is never any guarantee that you will have a future together in any given incarnation. And if it is your Twin Flame (because you just know, not because some oddball psychic told you), yes… then you will be together. When the time is right, which could very well be 20 incarnations from now, when both of you are ready. The time perspective we need to bear in mind is eternity. Oh and in case you were wondering… Soul Mates and Twin Flames have free will too. You can’t shackle them with...

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4 Myths and 7 Truths about Soul Mate Relationships

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  As a tarot reader, I often get asked if the person a client is dating is their soul mate. There is nothing odd about having an intuitive feeling of being deeply connected to someone you have just met – Most of the time, the cards verify this gut feeling and he or she do indeed turn out to be a soul mate. What many people don’t realise is that meeting a soul mate does not automatically equal ‘happily ever after.’ The Wikipedia definition of soul mate only helps cement the myth that your soul mate is always a life long partner: A soulmate (or soul mate) is a lifelong partner that is predetermined by God. Believed by some to be the person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, sex, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility. By the way, in my experience, not even a Twin Flame (which is our other soul half) is always predetermined to be our lifelong companion – but that’s a story for another time. Let’s dispel some of the most common myths and set the record straight! Top 4 myths about soul mates and soul mate relationships When you meet your soul mate, you will end up marrying him or her You only have one soul mate and he or she is your ideal lover Soul mate relationships are always blissfully happy because you have finally met ‘The One’ You can’t feel complete until you have met your soul mate So what is a soul mate really and why do they come into our lives…? 7 truths about soul mate relationships A soul mate is a member of your soul group Here on earth, they can be a family member, friend or even colleague You have a sense of instant recognition (or, in case of family members, a deeper bond than with the rest of the family) You can often sense your soul mate through time and space, even when physically separated Important life lessons are always attached to soul mate relationships Soul mate relationships are rarely easy Feeling like you are somehow incomplete usually has nothing to do with not being in a soul mate relationship – It’s and indication that you need to learn to love yourself. Your soul family A soul mate is someone from your soul group or soul family – a group of souls that you have contracts with to learn certain lessons. Many of you will incarnate at the same time so that you can work out karmic issues and learn lessons set out in your soul contracts. Your soul mate can be your brother, sister, father, uncle, grandmother, cousin, best friend, first boyfriend, the woman you settle down with, your grandson etc etc ad infitum. How to tell if someone is your soul mate So how do you know that they are a soul mate? You will have an instant and permanent bond which...

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