It’s OK to take a time out from dating if you are recently single but you know best when you are ready to start dating again. People are often quick to tell their ‘single and looking’ friends that ‘It will happen when you least expect it.’ Well-meaning friends can also make you question and doubt yourself about dating ‘too soon’ after a break-up. Again, only you know when you are ready to start dating again.
5 Signs that You Are Ready to Start Dating Again
- Emotional Stability: You have reached a point where the emotions from their previous relationship are no longer consuming your thoughts, decisions and actions. You feel emotionally stable and ready to invest in a new connection.
- Self-Reflection and Growth: You have taken the time to reflect on your past relationship and have learned valuable lessons from it. You have grown as an individual and have a clear understanding of what you want and need in a future partner.
- Independence: You have regained a sense of independence and are content being single. You are not seeking a new relationship to fill a void, but rather to enhance your already fulfilling life.
- Positive Outlook: You have a positive outlook on dating and relationships. You are open-minded, and optimistic, and believe in the potential for love and connection. You approach dating with excitement rather than fear or scepticism.
- Time and Energy: You have the time and energy to invest in a new relationship. You have balanced your personal life, work, and other commitments, and can prioritise a new connection without feeling overwhelmed or stretched thin.
The ‘Help I’m Single Again’ Tarot Spread
1. Where you’re at
2. Your biggest challenge to moving forward
3. The main influence in your most recent relationship, or what brought you together
4. What you brought to the relationship
5. The quality of the bond you shared
6. What the other person brought to the relationship
7. The main influence in your next relationship, or what will bring you together
8. What you will bring to your next relationship
9. The quality of the bond you will share
10. What the other person will bring to the next relationship
11. What needs to be healed
12. The main obstacle to healing
Cards 13,14 and 15 give you the timing for your next romantic venture as well as the circumstances under which you will meet.
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