Love Forecast for HSP’s + FREE Mini Readings

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Dear HSP friends,

It’s been a peculiar week. Emotions have been riding high and many people have experienced emotional rollercoasters in their relationships. There is very little room for lukewarm at the moment and people are reassessing what really matters, including what relationships to salvage and which to let go of. While obsessing about relating is ‘normal’ for the month of Scorpio, I have rarely encountered it to this degree. So let’s see what the cards have to say about our most intimate relationships for the weekend ahead…

For this weekend’s forecast, once again I work with the The Psychic Tarot for the Heart Oracle Deck, the The Romance Angels Oracle Cards and the Thelema Tarot.

WEEKEND ROMANCE FORECAST – SINGLES

20 November Love Forecast Singles

The two cards at the top of the spread give us the theme for the weekend. ‘Love Yourself First’ + Combines with ‘Challenging Times’ (trad. 5 of Wands)

The challenge for the weekend ahead lies in loving yourself more… loving yourself better… Truly embracing the challenge to become happy in your own skin. Confidence levels are not necessarily low but may well swing wildly over the next couple of days. Unlike the 5 of Cups, the 5 of Fire/Wands does not bring the tendency to wallow or feel sorry for oneself, so if you’re up for it, you should be able to use this challenge well in terms of freeing yourself from limiting beliefs and self-doubt.

The three cards at the bottom show us the solution to the problem. The 5 of Swords next to the 10 of Cups and The Moon is indicative of negative long-standing patterns (perhaps even covering past lives) of relating in your family. It is these you need to face head on this weekend. It is time to stop being reactive and vow to steal back the happiness reactivity and self-doubt has taken from you.  The way to do this is by diving deep into Shadow and projections, so that the negativity can be released once and for all.

Remember: Just because things have been a certain way for many generations doesn’t mean that you have to continue the pattern. If you are reading this you have the mandate to free yourself and change things for good. Draw down the Sun to shine its light in every corner of your soul and bring the sunshine with you wherever you go. You are more powerful than you think you are!

Family gatherings are on the cards and while this should be a wonderful cause for celebration, expect emotional tension to stir things up. Forewarned is forearmed. Invoke angelic assistance if you have to attend a gathering where you know that unforgiveness is causing bitterness and resentment. Your loving presence can become the catalyst for change and teach you something about how powerful you truly are to effect change for the better.

If you are mindful of all of the above and embrace the challenge, there is no reason you shouldn’t be able to have some wonderful heart-centred experiences this weekend, even if it may not bring you the love of your life.

WEEKEND ROMANCE FORECAST – COUPLES

20 November Love Forecast Couples

 

Here we find ‘Flirt’ and ‘Well-deserved Reward’ (trad. 9 of Pentacles) as the love theme for the weekend ahead.

You met the challenge of last weekend’s reading. Well done! Things are starting to stabilise and your relationship is beginning to feel more like a source of joy than a source of problems. Now it is time rid yourself of any remaining doubt and lingering thoughts shown in the row of three Tarot cards at the bottom.

Whenever you feel tempted to slip back into a negative way of reacting or thinking about your partner, simply replace it with flirting instead. Flirting is something we often reserve for getting to know someone new but it is more important in long-term relationships because this kind of light-hearted fun is precisely what makes the difference between a stagnant relationship and one that is vibrant and mutually beneficial to both people.

Recapture the feeling of how your relationship was when it was new, exciting and sexually explosive. Remind yourselves of how you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. Try one or more of the below to bring that feeling back and spice up your love life…

Buy some lingerie. If you’ve never been one to really dress up for sex, this will be a nice change. You’ll find that even you are getting excited by wearing the sexy garment. You’ll even feel more confident, which is a lovely addition to any bedroom.

Get frisky in public. Maybe there isn’t much of an exhibitionist in you, that’s ok, you don’t have to go all the way in the aisle of a department store. Simply tease your partner while you’re out in public together. Do it in such a way that they can’t do anything about it. They’ll be itching to get you home as soon as possible.

Get out of the bedroom. You don’t have to do it on a roller coaster to have a change of scenery. Head to your laundry room, the guest room or even the stairs in your house. It will remind you of the carefree feeling you had in the beginning.

Attack your partner the next time they come home. Catching people off guard can be a really nice surprise, especially if they usually have to initiate. Wait for your partner to return, naked or not, and pounce them the second they walk in the door.

Talk dirty. If you haven’t been very vocal in the past, it’s time to open your mouth, your partner will be shocked and you’ll easily find yourself getting more turned on.

Make out. It sounds simple, but that’s usually the first thing to go in a long-term relationship. Focus on having make-out ONLY sessions,. it will bring you back to the time where you could do it for hours and bring you closer together.

Finally, purchase a toy together. Make a date of it. This way you can delve even deeper into what you do and do not want.

The temptation this weekend could be to be more in the head than in the body, but there is no reason you can’t use the power your mind and imagination to turn the heat up a notch… Why not start with a sexy surprise text message…?

My surprise gift to both singles and coupled people this weekend is FREE mini love Tarot readings in the comments below. Simply ask your specific question (no general readings). I will do as many of these as I have time for but at least ten over the weekend.

Blessed Be!

Lisa

PS. Have you checked out the massive FREE Love & Relationship Tarot spreads index yet?

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  1. There’s a lady that I used to speak to over the internet that I never met in person. She’s from Atlanta. She claimed to have a gift from God, that she sensed things before they happen. Kind of like a psychic. Im from NY. We eventually started talking on the phone. She helped me get through a lot of things at one point. She was helping me with the guy I fell in love with. I gave her his number at one point so she could help me with him. Him and I kind of dated but we were never in a relationship. Him and I kept talking on and off. In the last few months he hated me for whatever reason and didn’t want anything to do with me. I knew he was very much still in love with his ex but I had this strong connection with him since day 1, he claimed to have the same.

    But things started going downhill. I then come to find out recently that he moved to Atlanta and is living with the lady I confided in. I found out in a terrible way, she called me and told me she supposedly bumped into him. To make a long story short; the next day I called and asked her if he was with her and she said to ask him for himself and he was in her room in her bed. I don’t know what she said about me to him but I have a strong feeling she set me up and did it on purpose.

    By the way he NEVER Saw her in person just like me, he only saw a picture of her ONCE and that was when I first met him.
    They deny having anything and they tell me the story of how he’s living with her that he’s doing it for his music but I don’t believe it 100%. This is not like him AT ALL.
    And whether that was the case you don’t do shit like that out of respect. This wasn’t like him at all.

    He was treating me like COMPLETE SHIT even more over the phone and she was acting like a complete BITCH trying to act hard and talk down on me. She’s REALLY good with words And She has a psychology major. Him and I were on bad terms since August and her and I were starting to bump heads. He was defending her to the core, laughing at me with her., telling me a lot of ugly things and giving me ultimatums, telling me to leave him the fuck alone. He even told me she’s a great friend to slack off her back, and that’s just some of it.

    This happened on February 24th. He’s also back with his ex girlfriend who he loves, but she lives in N.C. Yet he’s living in Georgia with The lady.

    Im so angry and hurt and feel betrayed. It hurts from both ends but I was madly in love with him even though I knew he didn’t love me though he once claimed he almost was. And to top it all off they were both trying to act like I’m the crazy one after they fucked me over.

    I can’t defend myself and i can’t explain myself if he’s an accomplice of all this. He didn’t even genuinely care to understand me.

    He shitted on me with his ex, with some random chick I didn’t even mention besides this a little before this betrayal happened, and then with someone I confided in!! How fucked up can you be.?! With no remorse.

    I feel so low, lost, depressed angry, hurt. I suffer so much. Everyday I ask myself what did I do to deserve this, I had him on a pedestal and I never did anything to that lady I confided in so she could snap on me and be so malicious. How do I possibly get closure from all this. How do I possible feel okay or worthy. How do I ever trust anyone again. This is so fucked up. How do you even have faith in God when all I’m seeing is that this lady I confided in fucked me over and is having her share of laugh and has the boy I fell in love with against me? All I’m seeing is that he shitted on me with no remorse believing in her and his having his share of laugh as well.

    My question is; will he see her true colors one day and try to re enter my life?

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      Hi Wendy, Sorry you had to suffer through all these tough lessons. I really have no way of answering your question because a) I don’t do third party readings… and b) even if I did, this is not the question you need to be asking right now. The only question that can free you and help you feel better is ‘How can I move on with my life?’ and the answer is ‘Forgive!’ Forgive everyone including yourself, draw a firm line under the past and use your god-given creative powers to manifest a better future for yourself. Blessings, Lisa

  2. Thank you kindly for this lovely opportunity Lisa.
    My question is about who I believe to be my soulmate, i feel an unmistaken knowing and sense of a past life together, but a lot more intense. He seems to be my ‘twin flame’ opposite.

    This man has pretty much the same name, (Che:him, Shae: me, (pronounced the same)
    He lives in the house/room I first moved into, when I was younger. There are many external synchronicities.
    I am returning to my home town where I unintentionally met him. Will we be together, Is he really my soulmate?

    Thank you so much.

  3. Dear Lisa,
    My question is about the relationship I have with 2 men in my life. I’m very much in doubt and insecure about whether what to do in both situations. With the man who has been in my life for over 10 years I have difficulties to really connect and it feels that we are reaching an end. The other man I met last year and made me feel alive. At this moment I could really use all the help I can get, so hopefully the cards can help me. Thank you

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  4. Hi Lisa , here’s my question even tho you have answerd sooooo many I will make it brief , given the choice in love between two guys which one is more genuine and the best for me. The younger foreign guy H M or the man from the past A P.
    Cheers if you answer and blessings to your fingers with all the shufflin bless xx Julie

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  5. Hello Lisa,
    Can you please tell me if a man I’ve been seeing will become as close as we once were. We lived down the street from one another. I was forced to move. After that we’ve not been intimate although we talk daily and see each other when possible.
    Thank you,
    Laura

  6. Hi Lisa, thank you for this gift of a free reading. It’s always a pick me up to see something like this when things are not so good. My question is, will I connect to my true mate within the next two months?

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  7. Dear Lisa, your words are so inspiring always. I have met my twin flame, gotten together, we were again forced apart by circumstances and have been trying so hard since then to reunite again but its so difficult. Do you see any hope for us being together again?

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  8. Hi Lisa! thank you for offering these free “mini” readings..they always proove to be very insightful and not mini at all in tearms of impact! 🙂 – well, I am single as well, but I have been really focusing on myself and healing after recovering from a painful break up. I am ready to open up to something new! What do the cards suggest to help me doing this? Lot of love to you 🙂

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      Hi Magoo, the card I pulled for you is The Fool, suggesting you play more and break free from old habits and routines in order to invite the adventure of love in. When you get up in the morning, ask yourself, ‘What can I do today that I have never done before?’ Then watch the miracles begin to unfold…

      1. Hi Lisa, thank you! This really is a weak spot for me. I should definetely put more energy in opening up to the new and make a leap of faith 🙂 your messages come always with divine timing! thank you and keep up with all this amazing work and inspiration 🙂

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      Hi Jesus, The Wheel of Fortune shows us that this is a fated connection that has the potential to bring great fortune for both of you. It could also indicate that you are about to repeat a pattern from a past life. I suggest meditating on this to gain the answer for yourself from within to tap the essence of the soul contract you have with each other. Set the intent to free yourself from karma.

  9. Hi Lisa: Thank you for sharing your wonderful gift and for offering these mini readings! I’m wondering when I will hear from G again. If you get to my question, thank you very much for doing the reading!

    1. Whoops I asked a timing question and I am not sure how you feel about timing and the Tarot. Can I rephrase my question to what is preventing G from contacting me/does it look favorable for him to contact me? Sorry about that!! Thank you!

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  10. Hi Lisa,I appreciate all of the forecasts that you provide for all of us.
    My question to you is if their is a future for Ron and I,I believe in him,I have found my truest love.
    Thank you in advance for your reading.

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      Hi Jackie, I see passion here but also stubbornness, pride and ultimately the realisation that he is not who you thought he was. Seek the most peaceful way forward for yourself.

  11. Hi Lisa! I recently asked someone on a date, he told me that he was too busy for dating, yet he shows interest in me by flirting and staring at me from across the room.The conversation that night ended with he giving me a big hug and telling me he appreciated me. I was wondering how I can get a date with him? Will his schedule clear? What were his feelings around my dinner invite? Thanks =]
    – Lisa

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      Hi Lisa, I don’t see his ‘schedule clearing’ but he will probably continue to flirt with you because that’s his nature. He likes feeling appreciated but he doesn’t appreciate you enough to ‘clear his schedule.’

  12. Hi, Lisa! Thanks for the forecast! My question is actually about whether I’ll get this job I want. It would require temporary relocation, but it’s something I’ve been wanting for ages, and I’m willing to do whatever would be required.

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  13. I’m actually wondering if the the big job opportunity I’m pursuing will come to pass. It would require temporary relocation, which might be tricky, but it’s something I’ve wanted for ages . . .

  14. Who am I destined to be with? P who I’ve known for 20 years? R who I met last year? Someone else who I already know? Someone new?

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      Hi Mary, you are not destined to be with a particular person in this incarnation but I’m getting the best connection with R. You will need to choose and in order to do so you need to check in with your own core needs and values rather than hope that fate will bring you the right one. This is an incarnation in which you have been given the mandate to exercise your power of choice in love. I see this as a positive sign that you don’t have to work out karma with anyone in particular. 🙂

      1. Thank you! He’s the one I want and even though he’s keeps reaching out then pushing me away and telling me he doesn’t want a relationship because he’s tried and failed before and all of my friends say to give up I can do better I love him.and when I do readings for myself they keep coming up with present difficulty but future happiness. Two of cups comes up a lot

  15. Thank you Lisa for the many forecasts. My birthday is today and I am wondering if I am going to be happy in love and romance this weekend? Thanks!

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      Happy Belated Birthday, Val! Hope you had a good one. The Hanged Man for you this weekend when it comes to romance tells us not a whole lot will happen on that front. But you can still choose to be happy. It’s a choice! 🙂

  16. Thank you Lisa for giving so much of your time and energy to the lost/confused souls looking for advice and answers to the issues that without the help of an Like you, could stay in a state of limbo…not wanting to go back but too afraid of the unknown to move forward!❤️ I would like to know if I should trust, or just move on❤️

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      Hi Jessica, you would do well to trust your own intuition on this. If there is doubt and mistrust, you need to arm yourself with more information about what is truly going on… There are some things that need to be brought to light here. The cards will never tell you what you should do. The High Priestess is a sign that a secret needs to be uncovered and that your intuition is your best ally.

  17. Hi Lisa, I hope I make the list this time. I know I’m going through a big transformation right now, changing my old ways. it’s hard work but I know if I can stick with it my love life will be better. As of this moment I am completely single, no options at all so I’m wondering if you see a great man for me coming into my life before the end of this year. Thank you. Have a blessed wonderful weekend.

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      Hi Shell, I see beginnings in romance for you before the year is up. Can’t tell from this mini reading if it will actually be ‘The One’ but it looks enjoyable. You will be tempted to rush into this, so the advice I would take from the cards is to get to know him as a friend first… get to know his friends and family before you give your heart away. The fantasy element is strong, as is the impulse to go let yourself fall… Experiment with resisting this impulse would make you stronger. It almost feels like a test of your resolve to do things differently… could still work out though. Too soon to tell.

      1. Thank you Lisa. I will try my best and I look forward to it. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a good relationship. I appreciate your kind heart and wisdom. XO

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        Sorry. I shuffled until my fingers got tired and my head started hurting. I pretty much wore myself out doing this over the weekend… and I still couldn’t get to everyone.

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  18. Lisa, I have many questions…but recently I have met someone new, whom I like very much. I also have an ‘old love’ who is always there for me, but we are just friends, now; but I am a very loyal friend and we automatically gravitate towards each other. I am also at a crossroads at my career choice. I am moving towards finishing my Ph.d.. but also feel drawn towards performance again, as this is a spiritual path and I believe that this aspect can impact my world and my greater world in a most positive way. Lastly, I think that I have a past life connection with someone and I don’t know what to do about it, at all. I feel very helpless about this situation and don’t know how to work with it. Yesterday was my birthday and I was freed of a very negative work influence, which turns out to feel like a sense of relief. Other work is coming into my life which is extremely challenging, but I am receiving certain signs which are pointing towards this direction. I do healing work, with Music and Song. On a feeling level, there is excitement, but there is also confusion. Please advise.

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      Wow, OK… no essay needed next time! Please keep it short and sweet for these mini readings. They are only for questions about love this time (as per post above) About the new guy… lots of potential happiness with him.

  19. Hey Lisa, i,ve been working on freeing myself from limiting beliefs, so this reading resonated with me : ) I also have a question i would like to ask you. I,m currently talking to three men, whom i,ve met on a datingsite. With one of them, R, i,ve been on 2 dates before. There was a spark between us, but that fizzled out, because i had doubts if i could trust him being honest with me back then. Now he,s back in my life and i wonder if things will work out for us and wether i,m right to trust him? It not sure wether it,s my intuition, or my fear talking to me ; ) Thank you so much! Have a wonderful weekend!

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  20. Merry Mae 🙂 thank you for your newsletter, it’s been a wonderful read since I subscribed. Just wondering if you could ask the cards if my partner and I will find the attraction and desire we once had? Thank you for your time

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      Hi Elizabeth, connect with your inner Queen of Wands… Whatever she evokes for you (confidence, glamour etc)… this is the way forward. Make B feel lucky to have you in their life. 😉

  21. Hey Lisa! I’ll take my chances 😀
    Well, still single here, kinda with a crush on a person.So I guess if it’s that person shares the same and will come around or if someone new is going to come in my life or not 🙂
    Lots of Love!

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  22. Hi Lisa, thank you for the readings and all the wonderful resources you share! A question about the couples reading though, the 9 Well Reserved Rewards card, isn’t that 9 of Pentacles traditionally, not the Emperor? As for the mini reading, as common of a question that I know that it is, I’d like to know if my ex and I will get back together anytime soon? I’ve seen many signs in Tarot, psychic dreams, repeating numbers etc but not much 3D world evidence as yet. Thanks for everything, love! ♥

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      1. No problem, Lisa! I assumed it was a clerical error; I know you’re a very knowledgeable reader 🙂 I don’t have any of Holland’s decks but I’ve seen many readers using them so it was a bit of test of my own ability to translate them as well. Bright Blessings to you too! )o(

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          I get a feeling that he will pop back into your life like jack-in-the-box but without any of the past issues being resolved. Trust and boundaries will continue to be an issue… It will take work and willingness of both to do the work. I’m not getting an affirmative for long-term happiness with this guy.

  23. A fab reading which really resonated with me. I’m single and ‘loving myself’ and ‘challenging times’ has been a theme recently for me…thank you Lisa 🙂 <3

    1. Hi Lisa! Sorry I forgot to ask a question so I hope it’s not too late. Please could you tell me if I will find love in the next 12 months (and any clues would be most gratefully received)- thank you SO much! <3 x

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      1. I hope I’m not too late! Just wondered if I am going to meet soulmate any time. I’ve recently met a great guy but my intuition tells me he is not the one. A psychic friend believes he is right for me – but I am not sure.
        Thanks

  24. Heyyyyyy again, im hoping you can give some insight into my current relationship..i’d just like a general overview of whats going on with us..thanks a bunch 🙂

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      You need to be more specific for a mini reading. I would need a large spread and lots of time to give you an overview what is going on… I’m fairly sure you know what is going on on at least some levels, so it would be a waste of time to not narrow it down.

      1. Hey Lisa, sorry about that..i guess im more interested in knowing if we have the genuine connection that i feel we have and if there is long term potential here with him and if not, will i meet someone new that has the long term potential that i would like to have in a relationship. I do have strong feelings for him but my past hurts make me skeptical and sometimes its hard to discern if there are intuitive nudges or if its all fear..thanks so much 🙂

  25. This singleton is hoping to be one of the lucky ten for a Lisa freebie reading this weekend .
    My question is:
    Will i get together with the man (who im gonna share a fabulous, sexy, creative, respectful, adoring, relationship with) before christmas this year?
    Thank you

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  26. Hi Lisa, many thanks the forecast, I look forward to these every week!! my question is: what may future hold for myself and my romantic interest C?
    Thank you

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