through your lover's eyes tarot spread

Through Your Lover’s Eyes Tarot

through your lover's eyes tarot spread

Do you ever wonder how your partner or lover sees you? Does s/he perceive the same strengths and weaknesses that you yourself are aware of or does s/he see things differently? Does your lover know the real you?

The Johari Window is a cognitive psychology tool which is aimed at helping you understand your relationship with self and others. It is through randomly remembering this tool from my psychology studies and thoughts surrounding what’s known to my partner about me that’s not known to self that inspired the little Tarot spread, Through Your Lover’s Eyes, below.

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We all have ‘blind spots’ and this is one of the reasons that it is so useful to be in a close intimate relationship – the other person acts as a mirror and helps us grow. Now, I’m not saying ‘Use the Tarot instead of asking your partner these questions directly’ but for a bit of fun, why not pull the cards first and then ask? It could be a fun experiment!

Through Your Lover's Eyes - 2 Card Tarot Spread

THROUGH YOUR LOVER’S EYES SAMPLE TAROT READING

Strength: 8 of Wands (Mercury in Sagittarius) – Clarity of vision and speed of communication.

Weakness: 8 of Cups (Saturn in Pisces) – Holding oneself back from reaching one’s full potential out of fear

Both of these Minor Arcana Cards relate to the VIII Strength card numerologically, which is interesting. This could be an emphasis that this person looks at their beloved as very strong in their area of strength and very weak in their area of weakness…

It’s not easy to see what is hidden from view (even with the Tarot!) and asking your partner about perceived weakness can be like asking for trouble… so unless you’re both up for a challenge, let sleeping dogs lie. Ideally, neither of you should feel like you’re walking on eggshells and no topic of conversation should be off bounds…

If you do feel that you are afraid to ask your partner how they perceive your weaknesses and suspect they might use this kind of conversation as ammunition against you, you could be in a toxic relationship. CLICK HERE to find out if that is the case.

Love and Blessings,

Lisa