5 of Wands As Feelings (with a Ritual + Love Tarot Spread) ⋆ Angelorum Tarot

The 5 of Wands, corresponding with Saturn in Leo, is a card that often signifies conflict, competition, and challenges in various aspects of life, including relationships. In general, this card represents a period of tension, disagreements, and clashing energies. When it appears in a love reading, it can indicate a range of complex emotions and dynamics within a relationship.

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5 of Wands as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)

When the 5 of Wands appears upright in a love reading, it suggests that your love interest may be experiencing internal conflicts or feeling competitive. They might be struggling with their own desires and expectations, leading to a sense of restlessness or frustration. This card can indicate that your partner is grappling with multiple perspectives or options, causing them to feel overwhelmed or indecisive.

In the context of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, the 5 of Wands may represent an imbalance between the three components of love: intimacy, passion, and commitment. Your love interest might be experiencing intense passion but struggling with intimacy or commitment, leading to inner turmoil.

5 of Wands as Feelings when Reversed or Ill-dignified

When reversed, the 5 of Wands can indicate a desire to resolve conflicts and find common ground. Your love interest may be feeling battle-fatigued and ready to compromise. However, it’s essential to ensure that any compromise you make doesn’t lead to unresolved issues or resentment.

The ill-dignified 5 of Wands can indicate conflict avoidance and a tendency to shy away from necessary confrontations or disagreements. While this may stem from a desire for peace, it can lead to suppressed emotions and unresolved issues.

5 of Wands When You Are Single and Looking

For singles, the 5 of Wands can represent the challenges of dating and the competitive nature of the singles scene. You might find yourself comparing yourself to others or feeling like you’re in a constant battle to stand out. This card encourages you to focus on your authentic self rather than trying to outdo others.

5 of Wands As Your Attachment Style in the Relationship

The 5 of Wands can reflect an anxious or anxious-ambivalent attachment style. You might find yourself constantly seeking reassurance, feeling insecure, or engaging in competitive behaviours to maintain your partner’s attention. This card suggests that you may need to work on developing a more secure attachment style to foster a healthier relationship.

5 of Wands As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest

If this card represents your love interest’s attachment style, they may exhibit behaviours associated with an anxious or fearful-avoidant attachment. They might struggle with trust issues, fear of abandonment, or a tendency to create conflicts as a way of testing the relationship’s strength.

5 of Wands As the Energetic Connection

The 5 of Wands as an energetic connection between you and your lover suggests a relationship filled with passion but also marked by frequent disagreements or power struggles. Your connection may be intense and exciting but potentially draining if conflicts are not resolved constructively.

5 of Wands As the Potential Outcome

As a potential outcome, the 5 of Wands indicates that your relationship may face challenges that require both partners to work together to overcome. It suggests that by learning to navigate conflicts and differences, you can strengthen your bond and develop a more resilient relationship. Surrounding cards will tell you more and if there is potential to resolve repetitive conflicts peacefully or if the constant battles see you heading toward a relationship breakdown.

5 of Wands in a Relationship Breakdown

In the context of a relationship breakdown, the 5 of Wands can represent the conflicts and disagreements that lead to separation. It may indicate a period of intense arguments or competition for resources or emotional support. This card suggests that the relationship may be ending due to an inability to find common ground or resolve ongoing conflicts.

Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Releasing Tension

archangel michael 5 of wands-inspired love tarot ritual for releasing tension

To release tension in an existing love relationship using the Five of Wands and invoking Archangel Michael, try this ritual:

Create a sacred space your usual way.
Place the 5 of Wands card in the centre of your altar or before you.
Light a red candle to represent the Element of Fire.
Close your eyes and take three deep breaths through the heart, visualising the protective blue light or Archangel Michael surrounding you.
Call upon Archangel Michael, saying: “Archangel Michael, Ruler of the Element of Fire, I invoke your presence and protection.”
Hold the 5 of Wands card and visualise the conflicts in your relationship dissolving into light.
Ask Archangel Michael to help transmute any competitive energy into an energy of cooperation.
Spend a few moments in meditation, feeling the tension release from your body and relationship. Feel the energy of your heart expand and fill your aura.
Thank Archangel Michael and close the ritual by grounding yourself.