The King of Swords As Feelings: What It Means in Love & Relationships ⋆ Angelorum Tarot

The King of Swords is a card of logic, intellect, and authoritative communication. Corresponding with Gemini and embodying Fire of Air, he is the master of strategic thinking and clear expression. The King of Swords as feelings in a love Tarot reading can indicate a strong intellectual component to the relationship. This card can also represent your love interest, in which case it typically represents a person who values honesty, rational discussions, and fairness in relationships. However, their analytical nature can sometimes override emotional depth, making them appear aloof or overly critical. This is the Tarot court card that best describes a sapiosexual person.

The King of Swords corresponds with the ENTJ personality in the MBTI Personality Types.

Archangel Raphael is the corresponding Archangel for the Suit of Swords (Air).

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Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Sapiosexual Love
The King of Swords Love & Relationship Tarot Spread

King of Swords as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)

When upright, the King of Swords suggests that a love interest values clear communication and mental connection. Their feelings are grounded in respect and intellectual stimulation rather than overwhelming passion.

They admire your intelligence and appreciate deep conversations.
Their love is expressed through honesty, loyalty, and fair treatment.
They may struggle to articulate deep emotions but will show care through actions.
They expect mutual respect and may appear emotionally reserved at times.
Their approach to love is practical, rational, and guided by shared values.

King of Swords as Feelings – Reversed or Ill-dignified

When reversed or poorly aspected, the King of Swords can indicate emotional coldness, manipulative communication, or rigid expectations in relationships.

They may use words as weapons, twisting logic to suit their needs.
Emotional detachment could lead to miscommunication or stonewalling.
They may act condescending, making their partner feel intellectually inferior.
Commitment might be calculated rather than heartfelt.
Honesty becomes questionable, with hidden motives or deceptive tendencies.

King of Swords When You Are Single and Looking

If you are single and drawing the King of Swords, it suggests approaching love logically. You desire an intellectual equal rather than a purely romantic connection. It could indicate that you are sapiosexual. This card advises:

Defining your relationship standards based on logic and mutual respect.
Engaging in deep and meaningful conversations before forming emotional bonds.
Seeking someone who values directness and clear communication.
Being mindful of potential partners who are emotionally distant or overly critical.

King of Swords As Your Attachment Style

Your attachment style, when represented by the King of Swords, leans toward independence and intellectual validation. You prioritise rational discussions over emotional exchanges, ensuring clarity and fairness in your relationships. However, this can sometimes make emotional intimacy a challenge, as you may struggle with vulnerability or overly rely on logic.

King of Swords As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest

If your love interest embodies the King of Swords, they likely have an avoidant attachment style. They value autonomy, fairness, and structured communication but may resist expressing deep emotions. While they provide an intellectual connection, they may struggle to be emotionally available, requiring patience and understanding from their partner.

King of Swords As the Energetic Connection

The energetic connection symbolised by the King of Swords is built on intellectual rapport and clear expectations. This relationship thrives on stimulating discussions and shared ideas. However, too much focus on logic can create emotional distance. Striking a balance between mind and heart is essential to sustain passion and intimacy.

King of Swords As the Potential Outcome

As an outcome card, the King of Swords indicates a relationship built on fairness, strong boundaries, and direct communication. However, it may also warn of emotional detachment if intellectual compatibility is prioritised over emotional connection. Ensuring warmth and openness will be necessary to deepen the bond.

King of Swords in a Relationship Breakdown

In the event of a breakup, the King of Swords represents a logical and possibly cold separation. Communication is likely to be clear but unemotional, with decisions made based on reason rather than heart. This card may also indicate legal proceedings, such as divorce, where fairness and intellectual arguments take precedence over emotions.

Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Sapiosexual Love

To manifest a sapiosexual partner, perform this ritual with the King of Swords as the focal point.

What You Will Need:

The King of Swords Tarot card
A yellow or white candle (symbolising clarity and intellect)
A piece of parchment or paper
A blue pen
An offering of lavender or rosemary for wisdom

Invocation to Archangel Raphael

Archangel Raphael, Ruler of the Element of Air, guides those seeking clarity and open-hearted communication. Light the candle and say:

“Archangel Raphael, healer of hearts and minds, Guide me to a love with whom I have a sparkling intellectual connection. Let truth and understanding flow freely, And may my words always reflect love and sincerity. So it is.”

Manifestation Steps:

Write down the qualities you desire in a communicative, sapiosexual partner.
Hold the King of Swords card and visualise your ideal partner engaging in intellectually stimulating conversations with you.
Place the card under the candle and allow it to burn safely for at least 10 minutes.
Bury the ashes of the paper as a sign of grounding your intentions.

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