The “Help I’m Single Again!” Tarot Spread

help i am single again tarot spread

It’s OK to take a time out from dating if you are recently single but you know best when you are ready to start dating again. People are often quick to tell their ‘single and looking’ friends that ‘It will happen when you least expect it.’ I know for a fact that isn’t always the case. The cards gave me the heads up when I was months away from meeting the man I’d end up marrying… and they could do that for you too!

Layout for the ‘Help I’m Single Again’ Tarot Spread

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*****3*******1(2 )*****7*****

***4*5*6***********8*9*10**

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Cards 2 and 12 cross cards 1 and 11.

 

1. Where you’re at

2. Your biggest challenge to moving forward

3. The main influence in your most recent relationship, or what brought you together

4. What you brought to the relationship

5. The quality of the bond you shared

6. What the other person brought to the relationship

7. The main influence in your next relationship, or what will bring you together

8. What you will bring to your next relationship

9. The quality of the bond you will share

10. What the other person will bring to the next relationship

11. What needs to be healed

12. The main obstacle to healing

Cards 13,14 and 15 give you the timing for your next romantic venture as well as the circumstances under which you will meet.

SAMPLE READING WITH THE PEARLS OF WISDOM TAROT

1. 3 of Wands – I’m gearing up to start a new business venture.

2. 8 of Pentacles – The challenge is to get all the practical boring little details sorted.

3. The Queen of Pentacles – A need to nurture and feel nurtured brought us together.

4. 8 of Cups – I brought deeply transformative Scorpio energies to this relationship.

5. The Magician – The quality of the bond we shared was mostly intellectual. Empathy and compassion was lacking.

6. The Devil – He brought the ability to meet material and physical needs.

7. The Fool – We will be brought together by a strong longing for freedom and the need to be completely true to ourselves.

8. The Knight of Cups – I keep bringing deeply transformative and this time deeply romantic Scorpio energies to the relationship.

9. The Empress – An extremely loving and nurturing relationship.

10. 2 of Pentacles – He brings the ability to go with the flow and to successfully juggle life’s curve balls. Whoohoo! Gotta love those Jupiter in Capricorn energies :))

11. 2 of Swords – The mind needs healing in the form of peaceful thoughts.

12. 7 of Pentacles – The main obstacle to healing is a lack of patience.

13, 14 and 15 – Now then… I’d interpret these but I don’t care to see too much of the future for myself when it comes to romance! For now, all I really care about is getting sorted workwise and anything else will just be a bonus… but I will say this, the Saggie energies of the King of Wands are highly relevant to a message that was transchannelled by me last year… How exciting!

Blessed be!

Lisa

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  1. Thank you. What could the High Priestess and The World mean? I know the High Priestess deals with intuition and dreams and the World deals with completion etc… but what do both cards mean within their position?

  2. Hi, I posted my reading last week sometime but never received a response. I guess the post was never delivered, but hopefully you’ll receive this one. Anyway, I wasn’t sure about position 2, 7, 8, 10 and 13. Will appreciate your help. Enjoy the rest of your day and thanks in advance!

    Where you’re at (Queen of Pentacles)
    I’m working on deepening my knowledge on a project I want to put together. I’m also working towards some personal goals.

    Your biggest challenge to moving forward (The High Priestess)

    The main influence in your most recent relationship, or what brought you together (Knight of Pentacles)
    What brought us together was the need to balance the energies.

    What you brought to the relationship (Death)
    I brought transformation to the relationship.

    The quality of the bond you shared (The Emperor)
    The Emperor is exactly the bond we shared. Power struggles to its core was a issue. Funny how tarot delivers! And he’s definitely older, 6 years older to be exact! Haha

    What the other person brought to the relationship (Queen of Swords)
    He definitely did bring the Queen of Swords energy to the relationship. Not Libra but more on the Scorpio side.

    The main influence in your next relationship, or what will bring you together (Wheel of Fortune)
    The universe is guiding us together. Stumped on this one.

    What you will bring to your next relationship (2 of Cups)
    Stumped on this one as well.

    The quality of the bond you will share (The Lovers)
    An loving and compassionate bound.

    What the other person will bring to the next relationship (The World)

    What needs to be healed (The Star)
    My way of thinking needs healing by weeding out the negative thoughts. I need to keep a positive perspective on life, be more optimistic and have more faith.

    The main obstacle to healing (The Temperance)
    The main obstacle to healing is a lack of patience.

    Cards 13,14 and 15 give you the timing for your next romantic venture as well as the circumstances under which you will meet.
    King of Wands-5 of Swords-3 of Cups
    With the 5 of Swords and 3 of Cups, I feel we will meet on some social media or a dating site. I don’t know about the King of Wands though.

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      2 of Cups = intimacy, a loving bond for what you will bring
      The Wheel = a fated connection.
      King of Wands = month of Sagittarius (possibly last decan of Scorpio)

      1. Thank you. What could the High Priestess and The World mean? I know the High Priestess deals with intuition and dreams and the World deals with completion etc… but what do both cards mean within their position?

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          The High Priestess (The Moon) can mean anything from co-dependency tendencies to passive aggression or other forms of emotional manipulation. The World (Saturn) for what they will bring could be a karmic lesson. The relationship is definitely not just about romance – it will be bigger than that.

          1. What kind of karmic lesson does The World consist of and how does the Queen of Pentacles resonate with The High Priestess as to what’s my biggest challenge to moving forward? There are no forms of emotional manipulation or co/dependency that I am experiencing at the moment. As far as passive aggressive goes, I’m not experiencing that either at the moment.

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              Hi Selena, I recommend that you share your spread in a Tarot study group where you can show the card images if you need further help. Blessings, Lisa

  3. Love this spread!! :-)) Very advanced, yet, wonderful nevertheless!! ❤️ I had some issues with interpreting some cards and will appreciate your help. Thank you very much!! Blessings xo

    1. Where you’re at – The Hermit
    I’m actually focusing on personal development at the moment.

    2. Your biggest challenge to moving forward – King of Wands
    I’m having a very difficult time trying to figure out the meaning of this court card in this position. Will appreciate the help.

    3. The main influence in your most recent relationship, or what brought you together – The High Priestess
    Another one I’m stuck on.

    4. What you brought to the relationship – Page of Pentacles
    Another court card!! I’m an earth sign (Capricorn), so I’ll say I brought strong Capricorn energies to the relationship.

    5. The quality of the bond you shared – Knight of Pentacles
    The quality of the bond we shared was mostly physical/sensual.

    6. What the other person brought to the relationship – The Hanged Man
    He brought new perspectives to the relationship and the ability to go with the flow?

    7. The main influence in your next relationship, or what will bring you together – The Sun
    The main influence in my next relationship will be self-expression?

    8. What you will bring to your next relationship – 2 of Springs (Wands)
    Not sure about the one. Any help will be appreciated.

    9. The quality of the bond you will share – Queen of Pentacles
    The quality of the bound we will share will be warm, loving and nurturing.

    10. What the other person will bring to the next relationship – The Star
    He will bring transparency and inspiration.

    11. What needs to be healed – The Moon
    I need to put my fears to rest and trust that everything is unfolding as it is meant to.

    12. The main obstacle to healing – 3 of Swords
    The main obstacle to healing is surrendering my worries.

    Cards 13,14 and 15 give you the timing for your next romantic venture as well as the circumstances under which you will meet.
    (Temperance) (The Lovers) (5 of Swords)
    I’m not good with predicted timing and circumstances. I will will appreciate with these cards as well.

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      1. Thanks and will do!! :-)) By the way, can you tell me what the King of Wands might mean in position 2 and the 3 of wands in position 8? Thanks again.

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          The King of Wands as a challenge is your visionary ability – a lack of vision of exactly it is you wish to manifest. Is it the 2 or 3 of Wands in position 8? You said 2 the first time and 3 the second time…

          1. Oh forgive me… I meant the 2 of Wands. And can you give me some advice on how I can overcome that challenge with the King of Wands? Thank you again, Lisa.

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              To create clarity of vision you will need to learn to set a clear intent and to keep the focus on that intent. This is about choosing and creating space for what is for your Highest Good, of course – the separate self/ego doesn’t have a vision because it is deceived into seeing itself as separate from the All. The 2 of Wands can be mean that either you bring a aggression and a tendency to want to control/dominate your partner (Mars in Aries) or you bring a dynamic energy which makes you act as a sparring partner to bring out the best in your partner.

          2. Thank you. Am I able to draw a clarifier card for the 2 of Wands just to clarify what it’s trying to tell me?

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              Sure, but you also need to be aware of patterns of relating and what you are likely to bring to your next relationship so contemplate that too… preferably BEFORE you pull a clarifier. You may find you do not need one. Tarot readings are supposed to enhance self-awareness, not replace it.

      2. Yes, I have contemplated while looking over the reading which is funny considering you mentioning it. Thank you for that advice because I have been doing a lot of work on myself for the past 5 years since I’ve been single. And I will continue to do so when I do get into another relationship. I know exactly what you mean and trust me I will take heed to your advice. Thank you!! I did pull a clalfier card because I felt guided to (just to shine some light on what the 2 of Wands is reflecting back at me). I pulled the Ace of Swords.

      3. By the way, what advice would you give for overcoming the 3 of Swords obstacle? Is meditation good and what would you recommend?

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