The 7 of Swords (Moon in Aquarius) is often associated with secrecy, strategy, and a sense of cunning. It can represent deception—whether intentional or subconscious—but also independent thinking, calculated risk-taking, and a refusal to be emotionally vulnerable. In relationships, this card suggests that one or both parties may be holding back, acting strategically, or struggling with trust and open communication.
The corresponding Archangel for the Suit of Swords (Air) is Archangel Raphael.
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7 of Swords as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When upright, the 7 of Swords in a love reading suggests that the person in question may hesitate to reveal their true emotions. They could be testing the waters, emotionally detached, or trying to keep their feelings under control. According to the Attachment Theory, these traits are often displayed by someone with an avoidant attachment style who suppresses emotions to maintain autonomy.
- There may be an element of thrill in the chase, but once emotional depth is required, they may withdraw (Lee’s Styles of Love: Ludus – Playful Love).
- Your love interest might be intrigued but unwilling to invest emotionally.
- They could fear vulnerability and prefer to maintain a level of emotional independence.
- This person may be assessing whether the relationship benefits them before committing.
7 of Swords as Feelings When Reversed
Reversed, the 7 of Swords suggests that dishonesty, avoidance, or emotional distance is coming to light. If the love interest was previously concealing their true emotions, they may now be ready to confront them. Alternatively, guilt or remorse over past deceitful actions could be surfacing.
- If the relationship was built on false premises, the truth may be exposed.
- A previously emotionally unavailable person may begin to open up.
- The person may be feeling regret for past dishonesty or avoidance.
7 of Swords When You Are Single and Looking
If you’re single and this card appears, it’s a warning to be mindful of illusions, both self-created and external. It suggests caution—your person may not be showing their true self, or you might not be fully honest about what you seek in a partner.
- You may be analysing potential partners based on perceived pros and cons rather than deep emotional compatibility.
- You may be drawn to unavailable partners due to an unresolved avoidant attachment pattern.
- You could be hesitant to trust, making connections feel shallow.
7 of Swords As Your Attachment Style
A person embodying the 7 of Swords energy in their attachment style likely has an avoidant attachment style. They may fear emotional closeness and prefer intellectual connection over deep emotional bonding. They often strategise how much of themselves they reveal in order to maintain control.
7 of Swords As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
If your love interest aligns with this card, they may resist emotional vulnerability and prefer relationships with built-in escape routes. They may be engaged in game-playing love (Ludus), preferring to keep things light rather than seeking a deep emotional connection.
7 of Swords As the Energetic Connection
Energetically, this card suggests a dynamic where one or both partners keep secrets, test boundaries, or hesitate to fully trust. The connection may be intellectual and strategic rather than deeply emotional. If you both operate with the 7 of Swords energy, miscommunication and second-guessing could dominate.
7 of Swords As the Potential Outcome
If this card appears as a potential outcome, the relationship lacks transparency. The long-term success will depend on whether both parties can shift toward open communication and honesty. Otherwise, the connection may remain superficial or fraught with hidden motives. You may wish to pull a clarifier.
7 of Swords in a Relationship Breakdown
When this card appears in a breakup reading, it suggests that deception or a lack of trust may have contributed to the dissolution. This card could signify the intrapsychic phase (where dissatisfaction is internalised) or the dyadic phase (where avoidance leads to unresolved issues) of Duck’s Phase Model of Relationships. Surrounding cards will tell you more.
Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Clarity and Honesty
Purpose: To invoke Archangel Raphael for clarity and honesty in love when you find yourself in a relationship where there is a lack of trust or you notice a pattern of attracting such relationships.
You Will Need:
- The 7 of Swords card
- A yellow or white candle (tea light is fine)
- A piece of paper and a pen
Ritual Steps:
Light the candle and place the 7 of Swords before you.
Close your eyes and take a deep breath, into your heart and call upon Archangel Raphael.
Say the following invocation or use your own words:
“Archangel Raphael, bring clarity to my heart. Let honesty illuminate my path and remove all deception, whether from myself or others. May love be built on truth and wisdom. Guide me to see what is real and to express my heart with integrity. So it is.”
Write down any insights that come to you about your relationship or relationship patterns.
Turn the 7 of Swords face down and meditate on the flame of your candle as a representation of the truth that burns away all confusion and deceit, allowing the energy of clarity and truth to fill you.
Blow out the candle, thanking Archangel Raphael for his guidance.
Love Tarot Card Meanings + Rituals Index
7 of Swords-Inspired Love Tarot Spread
This 6-card Tarot spread is a way of harnessing the wisdom, guidance and healing power of Archangel Raphael, ruler of the Element of Air. Take a couple of deep breaths before laying the cards out and invoke AA Raphael’s assistance in any way that feels meaningful to you.
- Where am I being dishonest with myself in love?
- What subconscious fears drive my need to be secretive or guarded?
- Where do I struggle to trust my partner or potential partners?
- What belief do I need to release to embrace emotional honesty?
- How can I invite more transparency and trust into my relationships?
- What does Archangel Raphael want me to know about my love life? Pull an angel oracle card here.
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