The 3 of Swords (Saturn in Libra) is often associated with heartbreak, sorrow, and emotional pain. In the classical Waite Smith depiction of this card, we see a heart pierced by three swords, symbolising the deep emotional wounds that can occur in relationships. However, as we will learn below, the 3 of Swords as feelings can take on nuanced meanings, offering insights into the dynamics of love, attachment and emotional healing.
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3 of Swords as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the 3 of Swords appears upright as the feelings of a love interest, it suggests that they may be experiencing emotional turmoil or heartbreak. This card indicates that they could be dealing with unresolved issues or past wounds that affect their current emotional state. Previous experiences of rejection or betrayal may influence their ability to trust and connect deeply in the present.
3 of Swords Reversed or Ill-dignified
In its reversed position, the 3 of Swords can signify healing and recovery from past emotional pain. It suggests that a love interest is beginning to let go of past grievances and is open to forgiveness and reconciliation. However, it is still not a great sign that they are ready for a new relationship or renewed commitment in an already existing relationship. It could indicate that they are stuck in feelings of resentment and unwilling to process the pain further.
3 of Swords When You Are Single and Looking
For singles, the 3 of Swords indicates a period of introspection and healing before entering a new relationship. It advises addressing any lingering emotional wounds to avoid repeating past mistakes. It may even be worth signing up for some counselling sessions before downloading the Tinder app.
3 of Swords as Your Attachment Style in the Relationship
If the 3 of Swords represents your attachment style, it may indicate tendencies toward insecurity or fear of abandonment. This card suggests developing a more secure attachment by fostering open communication and trust within the relationship. Again, seeing a counsellor might not be a bad idea.
3 of Swords Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
When reflecting your love interest’s attachment style, the 3 of Swords might reveal their struggles with vulnerability due to past hurts. Encouraging them to express their feelings and reassuring them can help build a stronger bond.
3 of Swords As the Energetic Connection
Energetically, the 3 of Swords can signify a period of tension or conflict between partners. It suggests that both parties need to address underlying issues to restore harmony. This card highlights the importance of communication in maintaining intimacy and commitment, which can help navigate through such challenging times.
3 of Swords as the Potential Outcome
As an outcome card, the 3 of Swords warns against unresolved conflicts leading to separation or continued heartache. However, it also offers hope for healing if both partners are willing to confront their issues openly. Look to surrounding cards for which of these two scenarios is more likely. The 3 of Swords with the 10 of Swords and/or Death usually means separation or the ending of the relationship. With Temperance, it could lean more toward healing and reconciliation.
3 of Swords in a Relationship Breakdown
In terms of relationship breakdowns, this card signifies a painful but necessary end or transformation. According to Duck’s Phase Model, this might represent the “grave-dressing” phase, where individuals make sense of the breakup and prepare for future relationships by learning from past experiences.
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Angelic Love Tarot Ritual with Archangel Raphael
To perform an angelic love tarot ritual using the 3 of Swords and invoking Archangel Raphael, create sacred space and light a green candle symbolising healing. Archangel Raphael corresponds with Mercury and rules Wednesdays. Ideally, light the candle on a Wednesday but you can do this ritual at any time. The angels never turn down a petition for help.
- Invoke Archangel Raphael: Take a few deep breaths with your hands over your heart. With eyes closed, visualise breathing in Raphael’s healing green light through your heart to completely envelop your aura. Ask for guidance in healing emotional wounds related to love.
- Focus on Healing: Place the 3 of Swords card before you and meditate on releasing past pain. Imagine each sword being gently dissolved from your heart with Raphael’s emerald light.
- Affirmation: Speak an affirmation aloud: “I release all pain and open my heart to love’s healing light. Thank you for assisting me with this, Archangel Raphael, and so it is!”
- Closure: Extinguish the candle when ready or allow it to burn out safely.
This ritual aims to promote emotional healing and prepare you for healthier relationships by invoking divine support.
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