These ‘Their Feelings for You’ Pick-a-Pile Tarot readings are specifically for a romantic love interest. They will tell you how the other person feels, what their intentions toward you are and how they are likely to act on these intentions within the next few weeks. If you would like to dive a bit deeper, you can check out the How They Really Feel About You Tarot Spread or book a reading.
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For these Love Tarot pick-a-pile readings, we are working with the Waite Smith Tarot deck. As always with general readings, take only what resonates…
Clues About Their Feelings for You
When you have a romantic interest in someone but haven’t established much communication yet, it can be challenging to gauge their feelings. However, there are several subtle clues you can look for to get an idea of whether or not your feelings are reciprocated.
Nonverbal Cues
Nonverbal communication often speaks louder than words, especially in the early stages of attraction.
Body Language
Pay attention to how they position themselves when you’re around. If they like you, they may:
- Lean in when you’re talking
- Face their body towards you
- Mirror your gestures and posture
- Make frequent eye contact
These subtle movements indicate interest and a desire to connect with you.
Facial Expressions
Watch for signs of genuine happiness when they see you:
- Their eyes may widen slightly
- They might smile more often in your presence
- You may notice their pupils dilate when looking at you
These involuntary reactions can be strong indicators of attraction.
Behavioural Changes
Even with limited communication, you can observe how they act around you compared to others.
Attention and Focus
If they’re interested, you might notice:
- They give you their undivided attention when you speak
- They seem to remember small details about you
- They may become slightly nervous or clumsy in your presence
These behaviours suggest that you’re making a significant impact on their thoughts and actions.
Proximity and “Accidental” Encounters
Look for signs that they’re trying to be near you:
- They might find reasons to be in the same place as you
- They could position themselves close to you in group settings
- You may notice them looking at you from across a room
These “coincidences” could be intentional efforts to be around you more often.
Digital Interactions
In today’s digital age, even minimal communication can provide clues.
Social Media Engagement
If they’re interested, you might see:
- Increased activity on your social media posts (likes, comments)
- They view your stories or updates quickly
- They may start following your interests or mutual friends
This digital attention can indicate a desire to learn more about you and stay connected.
Messaging Patterns
When you do communicate, pay attention to:
- How quickly they respond to your messages
- Whether they use emojis or seem enthusiastic in their texts
- If they initiate conversations, even about small things
Prompt and engaging responses suggest that they prioritise communication with you.
Seeking Opportunities
An interested person will often try to create chances for more interaction.
Mutual Friends
They might:
- Ask mutual friends about you
- Try to join group activities where you’ll be present
- Attempt to get introduced to you in social settings
These actions show they’re actively trying to establish a connection with you.
Shared Interests
Watch for signs that they’re:
- Showing interest in your hobbies or passions
- Mentioning activities you both enjoy
- Suggesting events or places you might like
This alignment of interests could be their way of finding common ground and reasons to spend time together.
While these clues can be helpful indicators, it’s important to remember that everyone expresses interest differently. The most reliable way to understand someone’s feelings is through open and honest communication when you both feel comfortable. Until then, these subtle signs can give you a sense of their potential interest and help you decide how to proceed.
Pile 1
1. Their Feelings for You
The Temperance card in the position of their feelings suggests a balanced and harmonious emotional state. This person likely feels a sense of calm and peace when thinking of you. They desire balance and moderation in the relationship.
Their emotions are neither overly passionate nor completely detached. Instead, they’re experiencing a measured, steady warmth towards you. This card indicates they may be taking time to understand and integrate their feelings, seeking a harmonious connection rather than rushing into intense emotions.
2. Their Intentions Toward You
The Strength card in the position of intentions reveals a powerful yet gentle approach. This suggests their intentions are:
- To approach the relationship with courage and compassion
- To exercise patience and understanding
- To build a strong, lasting connection based on mutual respect
This card indicates that they intend to handle the relationship with care and inner strength. They’re likely willing to face any challenges that may arise but will do so with gentleness rather than force. Their intentions are rooted in genuine care and a desire for a meaningful connection.
3. How They Are Likely to Act on Those Intentions
The King of Pentacles in the position of actions suggests a practical and grounded approach to pursuing their intentions. This person is likely to take concrete steps to build a stable foundation for the relationship. The way they show their interest is through tangible gestures and reliable actions. Furthermore, they are likely to approach the relationship with a sense of responsibility and commitment.
This card indicates that they will act in ways that demonstrate their reliability and ability to provide security. They may express their interest through practical means, such as planning thoughtful dates, offering help with day-to-day tasks, or showing consistent, dependable behaviour. The King of Pentacles suggests they will act with maturity and a long-term perspective, focusing on building something lasting and valuable.
In summary, this tarot spread suggests a person who feels balanced emotions towards you, intends to approach the relationship with gentle strength and patience and is likely to act in practical, reliable ways to build a stable connection. Their approach is measured, caring, and grounded, indicating the potential for a meaningful and lasting romantic relationship.
Pile 2
1. Their Feelings for You
The 6 of Wands in the position of feelings suggests that this person feels happy and confident when they think about you. They likely feel a surge of excitement in your presence, as if being with you or thinking of you brings out the best in them. This card indicates that their feelings are not only positive but also empowering.
They may see you as someone who elevates their status or makes them feel like a winner in life. However, this card also hints at a desire for recognition. They may be hoping that you notice and appreciate them, craving your admiration and approval. Overall, their feelings are marked by enthusiasm, optimism, and a belief that together, you could achieve great things.
2. Their Intentions Toward You
With the Justice card representing their intentions, this person is approaching the potential relationship with a sense of fairness, diplomacy, and integrity. They are likely contemplating the pros and cons of pursuing a deeper connection with you, weighing their feelings against practical considerations. Their intentions are rooted in a desire for honesty and truth.
They may be planning to have an open, straightforward conversation about where you both stand and what you want from each other.
This card suggests that they intend to treat you with respect and equality, seeking a partnership based on mutual understanding and shared responsibilities. They’re not looking to rush into anything without careful consideration, nor do they want to lead you on or create false expectations. Instead, their goal is to establish a clear foundation for your relationship, where both parties are on equal footing.
3. How They Are Likely to Act on Those Intentions
The Death card in the position of actions might seem alarming at first, but in tarot, it typically represents transformation and significant change rather than literal death. This card suggests that this person is likely to act in ways that bring about a profound shift in your relationship dynamics. They may suddenly end the current state of uncertainty or casual interaction, pushing for a definitive change in how you relate to each other.
However, this card can also mean that they decide to end their involvement with you if they deem that the exchange will not be fair as per the previous card.
Pile 3
1. Their Feelings for You
The Death card in the position of feelings suggests a profound transformation in this person’s emotional landscape regarding you. Their feelings are undergoing a significant shift, marking the end of one phase and the beginning of another. This doesn’t necessarily indicate negative emotions; rather, it points to a deep, internal change. They may be letting go of past perceptions or outdated feelings, making way for something new and potentially more profound.
Their emotions are likely intense and complex, as they navigate this internal metamorphosis. There might be a sense of loss associated with old patterns or expectations, but also an underlying current of excitement for what’s to come. This card indicates that their feelings for you are evolving into something more mature, stripped of illusions, and potentially more authentic. It’s a powerful emotional state, one that could lead to a rebirth in how they view the potential for a relationship.
2. Their Intentions Toward You
With the 4 of Wands representing their intentions, this person is likely aiming to create a stable, joyful, and harmonious connection with you. This card symbolises celebration, homecoming, and the laying of foundations. Their intentions are rooted in a desire for something lasting and meaningful. They may be considering taking your relationship to the next level, perhaps by introducing you to their inner circle or creating shared experiences that strengthen your bond.
There’s a sense of wanting to build something together, a shared space – both literal and figurative – where you both can flourish. Their intentions are not fleeting or casual; instead, they’re thinking about long-term possibilities and how to integrate you more fully into their life. This card suggests they intend to approach the relationship with enthusiasm and a spirit of collaboration, aiming to create a partnership that feels like coming home.
3. How They Are Likely to Act on Those Intentions
The Magician in the position of actions indicates that this person is likely to take dynamic, creative, and purposeful steps to manifest their intentions. They’re poised to use all the resources at their disposal to bring about the connection they desire with you. Their actions may seem almost magical in their effectiveness and timing. You might find them suddenly demonstrating skills or qualities you hadn’t noticed before, all to impress and connect with you.
They’re likely to be proactive and confident in their approach, taking the initiative to create opportunities for deepening your relationship. The Magician suggests they will act with intention and focus, carefully crafting their words and actions to achieve the desired outcome. You may see them planning elaborate dates, finding unique ways to communicate their feelings, or skillfully navigating conversations to bring you closer together. Their approach will be characterised by ingenuity, charm, and a certain flair that sets them apart. They’re not just waiting for things to happen; they’re actively shaping the course of your potential relationship with determination and creativity.
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