The 8 of Swords corresponds with Jupiter in Gemini. Jupiter is the Planet of expansion and Gemini is the sign of duality, curiosity, fact-gathering and analysis. Hence, the 8 of Swords as feelings in a love and relationship Tarot reading is a card that often represents overthinking. It typically signifies mental entrapment and not being able to see a way forward. In the context of a romantic relationship, this card can take on various meanings, reflecting different aspects of love, communication, and personal growth.
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8 of Swords as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the 8 of Swords appears upright in a reading about a love interest’s feelings, it suggests that they may be experiencing significant mental barriers or self-doubt in the relationship. They might feel trapped or restricted, unable to express themselves freely or make decisions about the relationship’s future. This mental state is typical of the empty love state, where commitment exists without passion or intimacy.
The love interest may be overthinking every aspect of the relationship, analysing every interaction, and creating scenarios in their mind that may not reflect reality. This cognitive distortion can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy, where their fears and anxieties actually create the problems they’re worried about, as described in the ‘Self-verification Theory.’
8 of Swords as Feelings when Reversed or Ill-dignified
When reversed, the 8 of Swords can indicate a breakthrough or release from mental constraints. In terms of feelings, this could mean that the love interest is starting to overcome their fears and doubts. They may be gaining clarity about their emotions and the relationship.
However, if ill-dignified, it might suggest that while they’re aware of their mental blocks, they’re struggling to fully break free from them. This could manifest as inconsistent behaviour or mixed signals in the relationship, potentially creating confusion and frustration for both partners.
8 of Swords When You Are Single and Looking
For those who are single and looking, the 8 of Swords often represents self-imposed barriers to finding love. You might be holding onto past hurts or limiting beliefs about relationships that are preventing you from opening up to new possibilities. This card encourages you to examine and challenge these thoughts.
8 of Swords As Your Attachment Style in the Relationship
The 8 of Swords can indicate an anxious-preoccupied attachment style. You might find yourself constantly seeking reassurance, overthinking your partner’s actions, and feeling insecure in the relationship. This card suggests that your mental patterns may be creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of relationship instability.
8 of Swords As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
If this card represents your love interest’s attachment style, it might indicate that they have an avoidant attachment. They may feel trapped or suffocated in close relationships, leading them to create mental barriers and distance themselves emotionally. Understanding this can help you approach the relationship with more patience and empathy.
8 of Swords As the Energetic Connection
When representing the energetic connection in a relationship, the 8 of Swords suggests that there may be significant communication barriers or misunderstandings between partners. Both individuals might feel unable to express themselves fully, leading to a sense of disconnection or frustration. This could be a situation where both partners may feel they’re putting in more effort than they’re receiving in return.
8 of Swords As the Potential Outcome
As a potential outcome, the 8 of Swords indicates that without addressing the mental barriers and communication issues, the relationship is likely to stagnate or deteriorate. However, it also offers an opportunity for growth if both partners are willing to confront their fears and work on open, honest communication.
8 of Swords in a Relationship Breakdown
In the context of a relationship breakdown, the 8 of Swords most closely aligns with the intrapsychic phase. This is where individuals mentally review the relationship, often getting caught in cycles of negative thinking. The card suggests that mental anguish and self-blame may be prominent during this phase of separation.
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Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Releasing Communication Blocks
This is a ritual you can perform if you find yourself in a relationship, whether new or old, where you and your partner/love interest are not communicating clearly.
To perform this ritual, you’ll need:
- The 8 of Swords tarot card
- A blue or white candle
- Lavender essential oil or incense
- A clear quartz crystal
- Find a quiet space where you won’t be disturbed. Light the candle and aromatherapy lamp or incense.
- Hold the 8 of Swords card in your hands and close your eyes. Take several deep breaths, visualising a soft, healing light surrounding you.
- Call upon Archangel Raphael: “Archangel Raphael, ruler of the Element of Air, I invoke your presence. Please help me release confusing thoughts and open channels of clear communication.”
- Visualise the bindings on the figure in the 8 of Swords loosening and falling away. As they do, feel your own mental constraints dissolving.
- Hold the clear quartz crystal and imagine it absorbing any remaining mental blocks or communication barriers.
- Thank Archangel Raphael and close the ritual by stating: “I release all mental chatter and negative expectations and open myself to clear, loving communication. So it is.”
- Extinguish the candle or allow it to burn out safely and carry the crystal with you as a reminder of your intention.
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8 of Swords-inspired Tarot Spread for Clear Communication
- The Core Issue: What is the main communication block in our relationship?
- My Mental Barriers: What thoughts or beliefs am I holding onto that hinder open communication?
- My Partner’s Perspective: What might be my partner’s view of our communication issues?
- Hidden Fears: What unspoken fears or anxieties are affecting our communication?
- Path to Freedom: What steps can we take to break free from these communication barriers?
- Potential Outcome: What positive changes can we expect if we improve our communication?
- Archangel Raphael’s Guidance: What message does Archangel Raphael have for healing our communication? (Use an Angel Oracle card here if you like)
By using this spread and reflecting on the insights it provides, you can work together towards breaking down the mental barriers represented by the 8 of Swords and foster more open, honest communication in your relationship.
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