Today, we are diving deep into King of Wands as feelings in a love and relationship Tarot reading. We also look at in-depth Love Tarot meanings for all aspects of the relationship. This king represents Fire of Fire and the Zodiac sign Sagittarius. He embodies visionary qualities, charisma, and leadership in the Tarot. In love and relationships, this card embodies confidence, ambition, and a dynamic and passionate approach to romance. The King of Wands often represents a male person but can be either gender. In today’s post, we go beyond personality meanings in love Tarot readings and look at what this card means in terms of emotions and through different phases of relating.
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King of Wands as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the King of Wands appears upright in a love Tarot reading, it suggests feelings of admiration and passion. This person likely sees their partner as an inspiring and dynamic presence in their life. They feel energised and motivated by the relationship, viewing it as a partnership full of potential and excitement. The King of Wands embodies qualities of leadership and vision, so they may feel confident in the direction of the relationship and eager to pursue shared goals. There is a strong sense of enthusiasm and commitment, with a desire to support and uplift their partner, fostering a relationship characterised by mutual respect and shared ambitions.
King of Wands Reversed or Ill-dignified
In contrast, when the King of Wands is reversed, it can indicate feelings of frustration or impatience within the relationship. This person might feel that their partner is not meeting their expectations or that there is a lack of direction or initiative. The reversal suggests possible issues with control or dominance, where one partner may feel overshadowed or stifled by the other’s assertiveness. Their feelings could be marked by restlessness or dissatisfaction, potentially leading to impulsive actions or conflicts. It highlights the need for balance and communication to address any power dynamics or unmet needs, ensuring that both partners feel valued and heard in the relationship.
The King of Wands When You Are Single and Looking
When single, the King of Wands suggests you embody a magnetic and self-assured energy that attracts potential partners. You may find yourself taking the lead in pursuing romantic interests, approaching dating with enthusiasm and creativity. This card encourages you to be bold in your quest for love, trusting in your ability to charm and inspire others.
The King of Wands As Your Attachment Style in the Relationship
In a relationship, the King of Wands indicates a secure and confident attachment style. You approach your partnership with passion and vision, often taking the lead in planning adventures and setting goals together. This card can suggest a strong sense of commitment and a desire to build a lasting, exciting relationship.
Your attitude aligns with the passionate and erotic love style, characterised by intense emotions and a desire for physical and emotional intimacy. You value both the romantic and practical aspects of your relationship, striving to maintain a balance between excitement and stability.
The King of Wands As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
When representing your partner, the King of Wands indicates someone charismatic, ambitious, and passionate. They likely have a secure attachment style and confidence in themselves and the relationship. Your partner may be a natural leader, inspiring you with their vision and drive.
They approach love with enthusiasm and creativity, often initiating new experiences and challenges for the relationship. This partner values independence while still being committed to the relationship, creating a dynamic and stimulating connection.
The King of Wands As the Energetic Connection
The King of Wands represents a powerful and passionate energetic connection. Your relationship is likely characterised by:
- Mutual inspiration and motivation
- Shared goals and ambitions
- Exciting adventures and experiences
- Strong physical and emotional attraction
- Frank, direct and honest communication
This connection thrives on mutual respect and admiration, with both partners encouraging each other’s personal growth and success.
The King of Wands as the Potential Outcome
As a potential outcome, the King of Wands suggests a relationship that continues to grow and evolve. You may find yourselves:
- Achieving shared goals and dreams
- Building a strong, passionate partnership
- Inspiring and supporting each other’s pursuits
- Creating a life filled with excitement and adventure
- Developing a deep, lasting commitment based on mutual respect and admiration
This outcome indicates a relationship that remains vibrant and fulfilling over time, with both partners continuing to grow individually and together. It could describe a ‘power couple’ that continuously evolves and inspires others in the process.
The King of Wands in a Relationship Breakdown
In the context of a relationship breakdown, the King of Wands can represent several aspects:
- Intrapsychic Phase: You or your partner may be experiencing dissatisfaction, weighing the costs and benefits of the relationship. The King’s energy might manifest as a strong desire for change or growth that feels stifled.
- Dyadic Phase: The confrontation stage may be characterised by passionate discussions or arguments, with the King’s energy driving a need for honesty and directness.
- Social Phase: As the issues become public, the King of Wands might represent a desire to maintain dignity and leadership, even as the relationship faces challenges.
- Grave Dressing Phase: In this stage, the King’s energy may be directed towards personal growth and moving forward with confidence, minimising personal faults and focusing on future possibilities.
The King of Wands in a breakdown scenario suggests a need to channel passionate energy constructively, focusing on personal growth and future opportunities rather than dwelling on past conflicts.
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King of Wands Love Tarot Ritual and Spread
Preparation
- Choose a quiet, sacred space for your ritual
- Light a gold or red candle to represent Archangel Michael’s energy
- Have your Tarot deck ready, with the King of Wands card separated
- Optional: blue topaz or lapis lazuli crystal for connecting Michael’s energy
Opening Invocation
Begin by calling upon Archangel Michael:
‘Blessed Archangel Michael, Prince of the Heavenly Host, Regent of the Sun,
I invoke your presence and protection for this sacred ritual.
Please illuminate my path in matters of love and passion.
Guide me with your wisdom and strength as I seek clarity in my romantic journey.‘
Meditation and Visualisation
Hold the King of Wands card in your hands and close your eyes. Visualise yourself embodying the qualities of the King of Wands in your love life:
- Confidence and charisma
- Passion and creativity
- Leadership and vision
- Maturity and commitment
Imagine Archangel Michael’s protective blue light surrounding you, infusing you with courage and clarity.
King of Wands Love Tarot Spread
Lay out the King of Wands card in the centre of your space. Draw four additional cards and place them around the King of Wands in this order:
- Your current love energy
- Challenges to overcome
- Archangel Michael’s guidance
- Potential outcome
Interpret the cards, focusing on how you can embody the King of Wands’ positive qualities in your love life.
Closing Prayer
‘Archangel Michael and the spirit of the King of Wands,
Thank you for your guidance and protection in matters of the heart.
Help me to approach love with passion, confidence, and maturity.
May I lead with vision and inspire those around me.
So mote it be.’
Extinguish the candle and take a moment to reflect on the insights gained from this ritual. Journal your findings.
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