The Moon as feelings can be quite complex to decipher in relationship readings. In my experience, it often accompanies some fear about things not working out. This fear usually stems from early childhood experiences of abandonment or not getting our needs met. In general, The Moon (associated with Pisces) represents the realm of emotions, intuition, illusion, anxiety and the subconscious mind. When this card appears, it often signals a time of uncertainty, hidden truths, and the need for deep introspection. Quick fixes won’t do the trick.
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The Moon as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the Moon card appears upright to represent the feelings of a love interest, it suggests that their emotions are complex, deep, and potentially confusing – even to themselves. Your love interest may be experiencing a whirlwind of feelings, characterised by intense attraction mixed with uncertainty or fear. They might be drawn to you in a way that feels mystical/karmic or beyond their control, yet simultaneously feel apprehensive about fully opening up or committing.
This card indicates that your love interest’s feelings are heavily influenced by their subconscious mind, past experiences, and perhaps even their fears and insecurities. They may be projecting their fantasies or ideals onto you, seeing you through a lens of romance and mystery. While this can create a deeply emotional and passionate connection, it also carries the risk of disillusionment if reality doesn’t match their idealised vision.
The upright Moon also suggests that your love interest may be struggling with inner conflicts or unresolved emotional issues as they navigate their feelings for you. They might be experiencing mood swings or moments of doubt, alternating between feeling deeply connected to you and feeling uncertain or afraid. This emotional turbulence doesn’t necessarily indicate a lack of genuine feelings, but rather a complex emotional landscape that they’re trying to navigate.
The Moon as Feelings when Reversed or Ill-dignified
When the Moon card appears reversed to represent a love interest’s feelings, it often indicates a process of emotional clarity or the dispelling of illusions. Your love interest may be coming to terms with the reality of their feelings for you, moving past any initial fantasies or idealised perceptions. This can be a positive development, as it suggests they’re seeing you more clearly and authentically, which can lead to a more grounded and honest connection.
However, the ill-dignified Moon card can point to a situation where your love interest is deliberately ignoring their intuition or denying their true feelings. They might be trying to rationalise away their emotions or convince themselves that they don’t feel as strongly as they do. This could be due to fear of vulnerability, past hurts, or a reluctance to engage in a potentially deep and transformative relationship.
In some cases, the reversed Moon might indicate that your love interest is becoming aware of deceptions or hidden truths in their feelings towards you. They may be realising that their attraction was based more on projection or fantasy than on a genuine connection. While this realisation can be painful, it ultimately paves the way for more authentic interactions and relationships based on reality rather than illusion. It’s important to note that this process of disillusionment doesn’t necessarily mean the end of their feelings, but rather a transformation of those feelings into something potentially more stable and genuine.
The Moon as Love Tarot Meanings When Single and Looking
For those seeking love, The Moon suggests a period of self-discovery and emotional exploration. It encourages you to delve into your subconscious desires and fears about relationships. This card may indicate that you’re not seeing potential partners clearly, or that you’re projecting your own fantasies onto others. It’s a time to trust your intuition but also to be aware of potential illusions or self-deception in your search for love.
The Moon as Your Attachment Style in The Relationship
In the context of your own approach to relationships, The Moon can indicate an anxious or fearful attachment style. You may struggle with trust issues or have difficulty expressing your true feelings. This card suggests that your emotions may be fluctuating, much like the phases of the moon itself. It’s important to recognise that your perceptions may be clouded by past experiences or unresolved emotional issues. The Moon encourages you to explore these hidden aspects of yourself to develop a more secure attachment style.
The Moon as the Attitude/Attachment Style of the Other
When representing your partner’s attitude, The Moon can indicate that they are emotionally complex or difficult to read. They may have their own fears and insecurities that they’re not fully expressing or even able to express. This card can also suggest that your partner might be prone to mood swings or may not be entirely honest about their feelings. It’s important to approach this situation with empathy and open communication, as there may be underlying issues and an anxious attachment style that needs to be addressed.
The Moon as the Energetic Connection
The Moon signifies a deep, intuitive and sometimes karmic connection between partners, but one that may be fraught with uncertainty. This energetic bond can be characterised by:
- Strong emotional and psychic links
- Shared dreams or synchronicities
- Periods of intense closeness followed by distance
- Difficulty in clearly communicating feelings
- A sense of mystery or the unknown in the relationship
This connection, while powerful, may lack stability or clarity, requiring both partners to work on building trust and open communication.
The Moon as the Potential Outcome
As a potential outcome, The Moon suggests that the relationship will go through phases of clarity and confusion. It indicates that:
- The relationship may reveal hidden aspects of both partners
- There will be opportunities for deep emotional and spiritual growth
- Challenges related to trust and communication may need to be overcome
- The relationship could lead to greater self-awareness and intuitive development
- Karmic baggage for one or both of you could come up for clearing
While this outcome may seem uncertain, it holds the potential for profound transformation if both partners are willing to navigate the emotional depths together.
The Moon in a Relationship Breakdown
During a relationship breakdown, The Moon can indicate:
- Confusion about the true reasons for the separation
- Emotional turmoil and difficulty seeing the situation clearly
- Hidden factors contributing to the breakdown
- The need to confront suppressed feelings or unresolved issues
- Potential for reconciliation if both parties can openly address their fears and insecurities
In this context, The Moon encourages both partners to look beyond surface issues and explore the deeper emotional currents affecting their relationship. It may be a time of painful revelations, but also an opportunity for significant personal growth and healing.
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The Moon Angelic Love Tarot Ritual with Archangel Barachiel
Materials:
- The Moon tarot card
- A journal and pen
- A white or silver candle
- Rose petals (optional, to represent Barachiel‘s blessings)
Ritual Steps:
- Create a sacred space. Cleanse the area with your preferred method.
- Light the white or silver candle to represent the moon’s illumination.
- Place The Moon tarot card in front of you.
- Sprinkle rose petals around the card (if using) to invoke Archangel Barachiel’s blessings.
- Take a few deep breaths and centre yourself.
- Call upon Archangel Barachiel:
Archangel Barachiel, Angel of Blessings and guardian of love, I invite your presence and guidance. - Meditate on The Moon card, allowing its imagery to speak to you. Reflect on any hidden aspects of your love life or relationships that need illumination.
- In your journal, write down any insights, feelings, or messages you receive.
- Ask Archangel Barachiel to bless your love life and relationships:
Barachiel, please shower your blessings upon my relationships. Help me see clearly through any illusions and trust my intuition in matters of the heart. - Spend some time in quiet reflection, allowing Barachiel’s energy to work through you.
- When you feel ready, thank Archangel Barachiel for their presence and guidance.
- Extinguish the candle, knowing that the blessings and insights will continue to unfold in your life.
Perform this ritual during the full moon for added potency/illumination, or whenever you need clarity and blessings in your love life.
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