The 8 of Wands (Mercury in Sagittarius) is a card of swift action, progress, and sudden developments. In the realm of love and relationships, this card can signify a whirlwind of emotions, rapid advancements, and exciting new beginnings. Its energy is akin to Cupid’s arrows, flying swiftly towards their target with unerring accuracy. The corresponding Archangel for the Suit of Wands (Fire) is Archangel Michael.
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8 of Wands as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the 8 of Wands appears upright in a romance reading, it suggests that your love interest is experiencing intense, passionate feelings that are developing rapidly. This aligns with “Eros” in Lee’s Color Wheel Model and is characterised by passionate, intense love at first sight. The person may feel swept off their feet, eager to pursue the relationship with enthusiasm and vigour. There’s a sense of urgency and excitement, much like the initial stages of Sternberg’s consummate love, where passion is at its peak.
8 of Wands as Feelings when Reversed or Ill-dignified
Reversed, the 8 of Wands can indicate feelings of frustration, delays, or miscommunication in love. The person may feel that the relationship is stagnating or moving too slowly for their liking. This energy can be seen in the “storming” phase, where conflicts and misunderstandings arise. It might also suggest an anxious attachment style, where one partner feels insecure about the relationship’s progress.
The 8 of Wands When You Are Single and Looking
For singles, the 8 of Wands brings a message of hope and excitement. It suggests that love may arrive suddenly and unexpectedly, perhaps through travel or online communication. Now is the time to get yourself out there and sign up for that online dating app!
The 8 of Wands As Your Attachment Style in the Relationship
If this card represents your attachment style, it indicates a tendency towards quick emotional involvement and a desire for rapid relationship progression. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing. However, be aware that a tendency to rush things can be associated with an anxious-preoccupied attachment style.
The 8 of Wands As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
When representing your partner’s attachment style, the 8 of Wands suggests they may be prone to falling in love quickly and intensely. They might exhibit traits of Lee’s “Mania” love style, characterised by obsessive, jealous love that develops rapidly.
The 8 of Wands As the Energetic Connection
This card signifies a strong, dynamic connection between partners. It suggests a relationship that’s moving forward rapidly, with both parties feeling energised and excited about their future together. This type of energy typically aligns with high levels of healthy interdependence.
The 8 of Wands As the Potential Outcome
As an outcome card, the 8 of Wands predicts a relationship that will develop quickly and passionately. It suggests a future filled with excitement, travel, and rapid progress. However, it’s important to ensure that this swift movement is balanced with stability and depth to achieve the ideal of consummate love.
The 8 of Wands in a Relationship Breakdown
In the context of a relationship breakdown, the 8 of Wands can indicate a sudden, perhaps unexpected end, especially together with Death and/or the 3 of Swords. However, depending on surrounding cards, it might also suggest a quick transition through the stages of grief, leading to faster healing and moving on. For instance, the 8 of Wands following the 5 of Cups can indicate rapid healing.
The 8 of Wands is one of the cards in the deck that takes on the flavour of the cards around it. It makes sense if you think about an arrow flying through the air. A strong sidewind can move the arrow unexpectedly.
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Angelic Love Tarot Ritual for Focus and Clarity
To perform this ritual, you’ll need the 8 of Wands card, a blue candle, and a quiet space.
- Light the blue candle, symbolising truth and communication.
- Place the 8 of Wands card in front of you.
- Take three deep breaths to centre yourself.
- Invoke Archangel Michael with this prayer:
“Archangel Michael, ruler of the Element of Fire and protector of the heart,
I call upon your strength and guidance.
Illuminate my path in love with your sword of truth,
Bring clarity to my relationships and cut away any confusion.
Help me to move swiftly towards my highest good in love.
Thank you for your divine protection and wisdom.” - Meditate on the 8 of Wands card, visualising your relationship goals manifesting in alignment with the Highest Good.
- When you feel ready, thank Archangel Michael and extinguish the candle or allow it to burn out safely.
This ritual combines the energy of the 8 of Wands with Archangel Michael’s protective and clarifying influence, helping you to focus your intentions and move confidently towards your relationship goals.
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Relationship Goals Love Tarot Spread
This Tarot spread can help you and your partner move forward with strength and clarity.
- Open Expression – This position examines how freely and openly you and your partner are able to express your thoughts, feelings and needs with one another.
- Momentum and Action – This card represents the current pace, energy and forward movement in your relationship. It indicates whether you and your partner are aligned and taking timely, decisive actions together.
- Alignment of Passions – The final position explores the degree to which you and your partner share common interests, enthusiasm and a sense of purpose in the relationship. It reveals if you are “on the same page” emotionally and energetically.
Doing this spread together opens up discussion around areas where one or both of you may feel stuck and/or not heard. Please make sure that you truly listen to your partner instead of thinking about what you wish to say next!
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