In today’s post, we look at XIII Death as feelings in love and relationship Tarot readings. I also share a Love Tarot Ritual with Archangel Azrael and a Love Tarot Spread for transformation. Interestingly, the Death card in the Tarot is associated with Scorpio Season and Samhain. I feel it’s not by accident that this card nominated itself in the Tarot Cards as Feelings series on the day before Samhain, as we move through the series in a ‘random’ order.
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The Death card primarily symbolises transformation, rebirth, endings, and new beginnings but can, of course, also address physical death. This card represents a profound change or transition in life, urging you to let go of outdated patterns and embrace renewal. In the context of relationships, the Death card as feelings can take on various meanings depending on the situation and the psychological dynamics at play.
Death as Feelings of a Love Interest (Upright)
When the Death card appears upright to represent a love interest’s feelings, it suggests that they are experiencing a significant internal transformation. They may be letting go of past relationship patterns or beliefs that no longer serve them. This person might be ready to embrace a new chapter in their romantic life, potentially viewing you as a catalyst for this change. Their feelings are likely intense and transformative, aligning with the passionate nature of Scorpio.
This can indicate intense physical and emotional attraction. Your love interest may be experiencing a powerful, almost obsessive desire for connection and transformation through the relationship. However, depending on surrounding cards, it could mean that they need transformation before being able to open their hearts to a new love relationship (see reversed and ill-dignified meanings below).
Reversed and Ill-dignified Meanings of Death as Feelings
In its reversed or ill-dignified position, the Death card can indicate resistance to change or fear of letting go. Your love interest might be clinging to past relationships or outdated beliefs about love. They may be struggling with the idea of transformation, fearing the unknown that comes with new beginnings. This resistance can manifest as emotional stagnation or an inability to fully commit to the relationship.
This state aligns with the anxious-preoccupied attachment style in Attachment Theory, where they may fear abandonment and resist change due to insecurity.
Death When You Are Single and Looking
For those who are single and seeking love, the Death card encourages a transformative approach to dating. It suggests letting go of old patterns that may have hindered previous relationships. This card urges you to embrace change, possibly by:
- Reevaluating your expectations in a partner
- Transforming your self-image and confidence
- Letting go of past heartbreaks or disappointments
Death As Your Attachment Style in the Relationship
When the Death card represents your attachment style, it suggests that you approach relationships with a transformative mindset. You may be prone to intense, all-or-nothing feelings, mirroring the depth associated with Scorpio. It could signify a combination of Eros and Mania in terms of love styles.
This attachment style can be both passionate and challenging, as you might constantly seek growth and change within the relationship. You are an intense and sometimes obsessive lover. You tend to experience dramatic highs and lows in love relationships.
Death As the Attachment Style of Your Love Interest
If the Death card represents your love interest’s attachment style, it indicates that they approach relationships with a desire for profound connection and transformation. They may be drawn to intense, emotionally charged interactions and might challenge you to grow and change. This partner likely values depth and authenticity in the relationship, potentially pushing for constant evolution and renewal.
Death As the Energetic Connection
The Death card as the energetic connection in a relationship suggests a powerful, transformative bond. Your connection may be characterised by:
- Intense emotional experiences
- Mutual growth and personal development
- The ability to weather significant life changes together
- A shared willingness to let go of the old and embrace the new
This connection aligns with Sternberg’s concept of consummate love, combining intimacy, passion, and commitment in a deeply transformative relationship. This type of love can be difficult to maintain and requires that both parties are willing to keep growing as the relationship grows and transforms.
Death As the Potential Outcome
As a potential outcome, the Death card indicates a significant transformation in the relationship. This could manifest as a major shift in dynamics, a renewal of commitment, or even the end of the relationship in its current form to make way for something new. Surrounding cards will give insights into which of these outcomes is most likely. Regardless of the specific outcome, both partners will experience profound personal growth through this relationship.
Death in a Relationship Breakdown
In the context of a relationship breakdown, the Death card suggests that the end of the relationship is a necessary transformation. It encourages both partners to view the breakdown as an opportunity for growth and renewal rather than a failure. This card indicates that letting go is essential for personal evolution and future happiness.
Check out the Angelorum Love and Relationship Tarot Spreads!
XIII Angelic Love Tarot Ritual with Archangel Azrael
To perform this ritual, you will need:
- The Death Tarot card
- A black or white candle
- A quiet, comfortable space
- Begin by creating a sacred space. Light the candle and place the Death card before you.
- Take a few deep breaths and centre yourself. Visualise a protective white light surrounding you.
- Call upon Archangel Azrael, the angel of transition and comfort, by saying: “Archangel Azrael, I invite your presence and guidance in this ritual of transformation and love.”
- Hold the Death card in your hands and focus on its imagery. Reflect on what aspects of your love life need to be released or transformed.
- Speak aloud: “I release all fears, doubts, and past hurts that block me from experiencing true love. I embrace transformation and new beginnings in my romantic life.”
- Visualise Archangel Azrael’s energy flowing through you, helping you release what no longer serves you.
- Place the Death card face up next to the candle.
- Close the ritual by thanking Archangel Azrael and affirming: “I am open to love’s transformative power. I welcome new beginnings and deep connections.”
- Extinguish the candle or allow it to burn out safely and carry the energy of transformation with you.
Azrael’s Tarot Spread for Transforming a Relationship
Azrael’s Tarot Spread for Transforming a Relationship encourages both partners to explore the transformative potential of their relationship. It invites you to engage in a process of transformation that resonates with the Death card themes of endings and new beginnings.
- The Core Issue: What needs to die in the relationship?
- The Hidden Potential: What new aspect of the relationship is waiting to emerge?
- Your Role in Transforming the Relationship: How can you contribute to positive change?
- Partner’s Role in the Transformation Process: How can your partner contribute to positive change?
- The Rebirth: What will be reborn from this transformation?
- Guidance for Renewal: What advice does Azrael offer for rekindling passion?
- The Renewed Connection: How will your relationship evolve after this transformation?
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