Apparently, a lot of men don’t like to talk about their feelings. I wish someone would have told me this growing up – It would have saved me a lot of hassle. You may argue it’s just a sexist cliché but as clichés go, I’ve found it to be mostly true. Many men get angry and shut down when we suggest dialogue as a way of problem solving. If I’d had a penny for every time this happened to me, I’d be a rich woman by now.

Perhaps women even developed their intuitive skills in order to gain insights into the mysterious minds of men. That’s as good a theory as any when it comes to the legendary female intuition.

Thank heaven for the gifts of second sight and divination! Here’s a little tool I developed to help you see if they will walk their talk and what is really going on in their heart and mind… And yes, this spread can definitely be used to see how SHE feels too… Women can be less than frank about their feelings too, of course, and perhaps I shouldn’t generalise. No offense intended!

How they really feel tarot spread


1. His story – What he’s telling you
2. What he’s really thinking
3. How he feels about you deep down
4. How he’s walking his talk
5. Outside influences on his walk
6. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks

So is there an alternative to ‘psychic spying’ when it comes to understanding men (or women) who are not willing to open up in dialogue? Well, you can try giving the other person some space and ask them to let you know when they are ready to talk. In my own experience, if they have an established pattern of getting angry when asked to clarify something, that time sill be ‘never.’

If that is indeed the case, you are better off finding a more communicative partner. I know I have generalised a fair bit in this article but there are plenty of good men out there that are perfectly willing to reach an understanding between you – especially if given some time to mull things over first.

Love and Blessings


PS. If you feel you ‘have’ to use this spread time and time again, chances are, you are NOT with the right person. There IS a better way. Do the work on yourself until you are ready to not settle for less than the person who would be willing to ‘go there’ in dialogue about their feelings and the relationship dynamic you have.


268 thoughts on “How They Really Feel Tarot Spread”

  1. 1.The Hanged Man
    2.Ace of Swords
    3.King of Swords
    4.Queen of Wands
    6.The Hierophant

    Please help me understand the spread.
    This relationship had been so confusing for me.

    1. Hi WIll, Welcome to Angelorum! How it works here is that you provide your own interpretation and then ask about any card you are stuck on. Blessings, Lisa Frideborg

      1. 1.The Hanged Man – He’s carefree, satisfied with where he’s at
        2.Ace of Swords – He’s happy about new the recent new beginnings in his life
        3.King of Swords – He sees himself as king of swords
        4.Queen of Wands – Me/a women in his life
        5.Death – It’s the end of our relationship
        6.The Hierophant – He’s letting this go

        1. Hi Will, I’m sorry but these card interpretations are so far off how I would interpret them and you’re not really using the positional meanings at all… There is nothing I can do to put this right. I recommend you get a professional reading! Blessings, Lisa

  2. 1 the star

    2 King of Pents
    He feels he’s the man

    3 4 swords
    Withdrawn emotionally, anixety, shut off

    4 death
    The end which will turn into good

    5 wheel of fortune
    The way of life, cycles

    6 lovers
    Love, soul mates

    Can someone help me with this spread, couldn’t work out what the star could mean

    1. Hi Hannah, Welcome to Angelorum! How it works here is that you provide your own interpretation and then ask about any card you are stuck on. Blessings, Lisa Frideborg

  3. 1. Queen pentacles. He thinks im high maintenance
    2. Star. His feelings are distant
    3. Queen cup. He feels im motherly
    4. Lovers. Hes making a choice
    5. 7 cup. Overthinking or gossip
    6. Death. Changed feelings?

    1. Hi Starfire, Change as this ending, especially when presaged by another Scorpio energy card (7 of Cups). We have two queens here. He will choose her.

  4. Hi… can someone please help interpret?
    1.ace of swords
    2. Reversed 9 pentacle
    3.ace of pentacles
    4. Reverse 4 cups
    5. Reverse 10 swords
    6. Temperance

    In a really confusing situation with a guy I have just met and can’t stop thinking about. I’m married and not in love with my husband and want to leave. What is this other man thinking? Please help…. thank you.

    1. Hi Moonbaby, welcome to Angelorum. The way it works here is that you provide your own interpretation and then ask questions about any card(s). A general tip: Finish the relationship you are in before you start the next one. This is not a moral judgment but common sense if you want to avoid drama and trust issues in your next relationship.

  5. I am not a very experienced tarot reader yet so I would really appreciate if you could help me out with this reading I did on my crush.
    1.4 of swords
    2.the empress
    3.8 of pentacles
    4. 6 0f pentacles
    5. ten of swords
    6. four of wands.

    I know that my crush and his current girlfriend are having some relationship issues, they_´re on and off which might explain the 4 of swords. I think he`s single right now,but i`m not sure.

    1. Hi Christina, welcome to Angelorum! How it works here is that you provide your own interpretation along with the spread and then ask specific question about any card(s) you are stuck on. Blessings, Lisa

  6. Hi, I did your lovely spread this is what I received
    1. His story: 2 of swords
    2. What he is thinking: The Star
    3. His feelings: Knight of Pentacles
    4. How he is walking his walk: 2 of cups
    5. Outside influences: The Lovers
    6. Outcome: 10 of cups

    So this man I like has a girlfriend, but I have known him for a lot longer than his girlfriend has (7 years to be exact, his girlfriend has known him for 2 years) We were always friendly with each other and we have always liked each other. I have fallen for him now and he was being flirty/ he seemed interested when I ran into him last month on the bus, after not seeing him for a year, and he has always seemed interested.. he didnt act like he had a girlfriend.
    Does 2 of swords as his story mean that he could be trying to choose between me and his girlfriend? And what do his thoughts mean as The Star? I thought this was interesting because right before I did this reading I had a dream where him and I were star gazing and there was a shooting star, and then The Star comes up as what he is thinking…
    I am confused because it says he is walking his walk as the 2 of cups, but he has a girlfriend…so what’s up with that? And 10 of cups as the outcome card seems very fulfilling, so how could that be, when he has a girlfriend? Thanks so much. I would really appreciate your insight. xx

    1. Hi Zahra, I think what you need to ask yourself is ‘What would I want with a man who acts like he has no girlfriend when he is in a relationship?’The Star isn’t usually about love. It corresponds with Aquarius and friendship. How would you want girls to behave around your man if you were in a committed relationship? Be THAT girl. Blessings, Lisa

  7. 1. His story – What he’s telling you-6 of cups is about nostalge so Im thinking hes looking back on how it feels to have feelings of excitement about someone.

    2. What he’s really thinking -The lovers hes really thinking this could be a partnership of love

    3. How he feels about you deep down-Ace of wands new beginning of growing emotions

    4. How he’s walking his talk- The Chariot – hes taking control over these feelings.

    5. Outside influences on his walk- 4 of pentacles. Hes very guarded with his heart

    6. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks- 6 of swords hes either moving away from these feelings or hes moving away from feeling guarded. so I pulled a clarifying card and pulled the magician which says to me he has all the tools in which to deal with this but its not telling what he will do
    what is you take on all this?

    1. Hi Corrina, outside influences (position 5) can’t be about his feelings… it’s other people or events that have an influence on him. Hence the 4 of Pentacles could be talking about financial constraints. 6 of Swords speaks of a friendship rather than a romance. Blessings, Lisa

  8. 1. The sun: he is a funny guy, he puts on a mask to be someone that everyone always likes. His story is that he appears positive and like everything is ok, but i don’t believe it is.

    2. Page of cups: we’re first loves, high school sweethearts. He’s thinking that he wants it to work but isn’t sure if he wants to get past the “young simple energy” of our relationship and take it to the next level. He’s scared of vulnerability .

    3. King of wands: he feels that I’m constraining his freedom? He is passionate about me but not sure about seriousness. Not ready for commitment.
    4. Knight of cups: he charms me in each time and he is full of mystery and charisma. He uses this to his advantage (negative?)

    5. Seven of cups: He is deeply conflicted inside and is not sure which way to go in any point in his life. He is tempted by superficial things that sway him from our real relationship.

    6. Seven of swords: again, he is running from vulnerability, running from me and himself. (Although I’m not sure if this can depict me too?)

    I am very new at this. I don’t really know if any of these feel right. I am mostly wondering about position 3,5 and 7.
    It’s Been 7 years on and off. I’ve always believed him to be my soulmate. He is so genuine when with me and never let’s me go for longer than a few months but is also very sensitive/moody and troubled then disappears. These cards seem right.. but how do they really play out in regards to if he’s right for me? Help appreciated 🙂

    1. Hi Savannah, sorry for the late reply – this (and the previous comment) got missed out in the notifications somehow… Perhaps things have crystallised for you? The card in position 5 always represents an outside influence and not how he feels/what’s going on inside him. The 7 of Swords means some form of deceit. Would love to know how this played itself out if you already know. Blessings, Lisa

      1. Thanks for the response.
        Would Seven of Cups in position 5 indicate that he is still searching or himself due to outside influences? Or searching for someone else?

        Seven of Swords as deceit, does this always mean that he lying to me or deceit in the form of not telling me how he’s feeling?

        1. The 7 of Cups in position 5 is only about the outside influence, not about how he is responding to it. Deceit is more active than just not telling how you feel.

  9. Hey, Lisa- I just did this spread this morning, as I wanted to get a firm understanding of where my boyfriend and I stood, just as we were beginning to get serious. Neither of us has uttered a word to eachother in 4 days. I was so excited too- because I never like anyone(I’m an Aquarius) but he pursued me relentlessly and unabashedly and made me (Gemini)…lol. Please help me

    3 of wands (For What He’s Telling You)
    I think that he may be reflecting and enjoying the silence.

    5 of wands (What He’said Really Thinking)
    Maybe he thinks that we’ll always have fickle disputes, and wonders if it’s even worth it.

    9 of cups (How He Feels About Me Deep Down)
    Well I’d like to believe that he thinks I’m a dream come true, but realistically he thinks that I’m stubborn and will get with or without him.

    9 of pentacles ( How He’s Walking His Talk)
    He’s totally content on going on alone/without me

    7 of cups (Outside Inflences)
    Ugh other women(illusions), choosing another

    10 of Swords (How He will be walking his talk 6-8 weeks)
    Being completely over me- not thinking about me at all.

    1. Hi Storm, sorry for the late reply – this got missed out in the notifications somehow… Perhaps you have a bit more clarity now? If not please let me know if you have a specific question about any card(s). Blessings, Lisa

      1. No worries, Lisa and thanks for your reply. I thought that the 10 of swords meant it was over, but we finally talked and both of our lives have been unexpectedly rocky this month. He confirmed that his feelings for me have not changed, but why would the 10 of swords come up? And how does the 9 of pentacles play out in a love reading?

  10. hi can you give me some more insight with this:
    1: his story: knight of wands
    2: what he’s really thinking: nine of wands
    3: how he feels about you: two of cups
    4: how he’s walking his talk: nine of cups
    5: outside influences: ace of pentacles
    6: how he’ll be walking his talk in 6-8wks: three of cups

    1. Hi Amber, welcome to Angelorum. How it works here is you provide your own interpretation and then ask specific questions on any card(s) you may be stuck on. Cheers, Lisa

  11. 1. His story – What he’s telling you
    Ace Cups
    Right now it appears that there is the chance to start a new relationship with this person. It seems promising.
    2. What he’s really thinking
    High Priestess
    What he’s thinking right now isn’t able to be revealed? Secrets etc. Maybe he is thinking that we have a link, or that there is some sort of spiritual connection.
    3. How he feels about you deep down
    King Swords
    His feelings are more rational at the moment, and he is thinking with his head not his heart regarding me, i.e. getting to know me first before coming to a conclusion.
    4. How he’s walking his talk
    Ace Wands
    He is communicating with me/reaching out to me. Could be sexually charged? Flirting etc.
    5. Outside influences on his walk
    Three Cups
    He may have friends who are influencing his decisions that he makes regarding me, or may be concerned with keeping up our friendship in detriment to an actual relationship.
    6. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks
    Page Wands clarified by Judgement.
    He will approach me with a message where he will have come to a decision about me and where our relationship is heading? This one I am the least sure on. What would you interpret these last two cards, as well as the rest of the spread as?
    Would it be worth my while to pursue this person?

    1. Hi S, worth pursuing only for sex witht he King of Wands at the heart + Ace & Page of Wands. Blessings, Lisa PS. You need to tell me which aspect of the Page of Wands you are seeking to clarify with Judgement. What were you not getting that warranted the final draw of an extra card? Please read yesterday’s article on the blog where I talk about clarifiers.

      1. Hello,

        I clarified the Page because I struggled to read it as an outcome alone. Also, what do you think of my interpretations and the Page with Judgement, and the Three Cups as an influence?


        1. Can’t really comment on the Page of Wands with Judgement because you haven’t told me what aspect of the Page you were clarifying or why you couldn’t read it as the outcome. To me it is clear that the Page signifies lust and not much else since Ace of Wands is how he’s walking his walk. The 3 of Cups is another woman in the mix. Or more than one other woman trying to grab his attention.

          1. I struggled to read the Page as an outcome as I quite literally saw it as a quick, positive message. I wasn’t sure what kind of message this would be or the actual short or long term outcome of this message would be. I can see the Page meaning lust combined with the others, and there being another woman, but what would Judgements role be?


  12. Hello could you please help. We work together.
    1. King of cups–he is telling me he is stable, caring w strong family values
    2. Ace of cups–he thinks I’m holding back? Is that correct.
    3. Wheel–he feels opportunistic and will take it if I come around. Am I right here?
    4. 3 of cup–he walk his talk by flirting and teasing me all the time.
    5. Ace of Wands–not sure what does it mean for outside influence. He has someone he hooks up with?
    6. Hanging man–I really don’t know. He will be passive/do nothing?

  13. Hello Miss,
    Could you please help me in deciphering the meaning of the cards related to my ex boyfriend?
    1.Ace of Pentacles- Reversed
    2.Two of Swords Upright
    3.The Sun – Reversed
    4. Queen of Pentacles Reversed
    5. Seven of Pentacles – Upright
    6. 5 of cups – upright

  14. Could you please help me to understand this spread better.

    1. 7 of Cups. He is telling me he is thinking about me? Right? What does exactly the first card show?
    2. 9 of swords. He thinks very negative about me? He is disappointed?
    3. Princess of cups. He likes me.
    4. Tower. He takes breaks? What does walking his talk mean? How does he treat me?
    5. The Moon. He is a psycho/crazy???!!
    6. Princess of Wands. He’ll be interested in talking/seeing me?


    1. Hi Ana, the first card indicates confusion. One or both of you could be sending mixed signals. The card in position 5 signifies an outside influence, not what he is. Why would you read The Moon as someone being a psycho?

  15. Hello. I’m getting back into tarot and wanted to get some practice so I used an ex and i’ s situation. So here is what I have:
    1. 4 of pentacles
    2. Strength
    3. King of pentacles
    4. Judgement
    5.10 of cups
    6. 3 of cups

    Do they hate me or is this just one big pile of confusion of not knowing what to think of me? Are they not over me or are they according to this?

    1. Hi and welcome to Angelorum 🙂 How it works here is that you provide your own interpretation of the spread and then ask specific questions about any card you may be stuck on. Blessings, Lisa

  16. Hello
    Here is what I found:
    1. Hanged man (what he is telling): he is waiting for me or undecided?
    2. two of cups (what he is thinking) he is thinking about a new phase in the relationship) of love and being together
    3. page of wands (how he feels inside) he wants to tell me how he is feeling. he sees me as someone who inspires his passion, he is attracted. He sees me as being a little unsure sometimes, a little impulsive.
    4. temperance (how he is walking his walk) he is balanced and trying to remain balanced : watching?
    5. eight of wands (outside influences) there is some sort of pressure on him.
    6. king of pentacles (how he will be walking his stalk in next 6 weeks) he is going to take charge and move things along successfully

    Hello there I would appreciate your input on this,, The person I am reading about and I are not yet together in a “normal” relationship. I came to know about him a couple of years ago. Somehow that was all that was needed to really connect and over time I have come to notice an undeniable connection telepathically and in synchronicity, We are both pretty gifted that way. I keep getting notions to make further contact but have some fear which is not necessarily based on him or the situation just some old lingering fear. I have received some hidden messages recently coming to my work and email about this. Including hints of Australia and a rendezvous. I am learning to trust, but know better then to be blind. Any thoughts on the above take on things? Much appreciated!


    1. Hi Sarah, I don’t really have much to add unless you have a specific question about any of the cards. Temperance could mean moving away from the passive Hanged Man space by adding more Fire… which would fit with travel. Blessings, Lisa

  17. Could you please help me to clarify on post breakup situation initiated by me. Did I get anything wrong?
    1. Knight of Swords–he is lying to me?
    2. Justice–he thinks it’s better to go separate ways?
    3. Magician–he feels he can still get something out of me
    4. Queens of wands–he tries to be charming and appear desirable by others
    5. Lovers–he has another woman or he is looking for love
    6. Emperor–he will try to reconnect?

    1. If he does try reconnecting it would be on his terms with the Emperor as the outcome. The Knight of Swords is not necessarily an indication of lies. Quite apart from there not being any cards here that speak of his love for you… listen to your heart – Is this what LOVE looks like? You know the answer.

  18. 1-Queen of cups(upright)
    3-Queen of wands(upright)
    4-Knight of cups(upright)
    5-Nine of cups (upright)
    6-Ace of cups(upright)

      1. Hi Sarah, welcome to Angelorum. How it works here is you provide your own interpretation and ask specific questions on any card you may be stuck on. Cheers 🙂

  19. This was obviously was a relationship that confused me. I’m also new to tarot so bear with me.

    1. The moon. Lies
    2. The tower. Feelings may have changed?
    3. Page of swords. Stubborn possibly
    4. 4 pentacles. Whatever he feels now he’s sticking to it
    5. Queen wands. the other women
    6. 5 cup. Obviously no happy ending between us but he totally butthurt and I move on and live happily ever after lol jkidding..

    1. Hi Michelle, The Tower corresponds with Mars so if it symbolises his thoughts, chances are that his thoughts are angry/aggressive or highly sexually charged. And yeah, not much there for you with the 5 of Cups as the outcome… Blessings, Lisa

  20. Hi Lisa,

    I’ve just met a man and I’ve got a good vibe off of him. I haven’t dated in a couple of years, but have been doing a lot of inner growth during that time. We connected at a course and enjoyed each other’s company.

    1 – Star – he is making a recovery after burning out a bit at work (he’s a healer, so it was giving too much)

    2 – Sun – he thinks I am funny and gregarious – he even told me that (I also have lots of Leo in my chart!)

    3 – Ace of Pentacles – hmmm, not sure about this one..maybe he feels that I am the real deal (we talked a bit about how hard it is to meet friends/people where we live, a lot of fakes and flakes lol) Or perhaps the feeling is more physical (chemistry).

    4 – Knight of Wands – we exchanged contact information and he didn’t waste any time contacting me. He is eager to meet up again. Interestingly, he seemed shy there but he’s definitely taking the bull by the horns.

    5 – 2 of Swords – I know he has both his work and his creative pursuit. I have no idea if he is
    trying to make a decision between the two or if they take up much of his life.

    6 – Ace of Cups – new emotional beginning, perhaps romance

    I have a question about the ace of cups. First of all, I’m not sure if in this case it means with me or anyone else, since the ace is about new beginnings (we’re both mid life and fairly solitary, though I am a chatty and outgoing person). Also in the spirit of reconnecting, I’m not sure if it’s just friendship alone or potentially anything more. We’ll be meeting up this weekend but I don’t want to put any emotional investment into someone if we’re not on the same page. A friendship would be nice but he is definitely my type and I do like him.

    I’m not sure if the ace of pentacles (physical, maybe a wait and see approach) becomes emotional?

    Thanks for any help Lisa 🙂

    1. Hi Raven, it could start as something more physical and blossom into romance. I definitely don’t see it as only friendship since we have the Knight of Wands here – he wouldn’t be hanging out here unless there was some spark on the menu 😉 Blessings, Lisa ps. I’d say the Star means he’s feeling hopeful about his chances with you!

      1. Haha – love the turn of phrase “spark on the menu” 😀

        This one seems promising. Many thanks for your help Lisa!

      2. I thought I’d post an update – I read comments and often wonder “what happened”??

        Chalk and cheese. Absolutely no chemistry whatsoever between us. Not even enough intellectual chemistry to consider friendship. No contact after from either of us.

        I realize the above reading was just potential at that time.

        I did the same spread again yesterday, just out of curiousity and got 1. 6 of wands 2. hermit 3. 4 of cups 5. ace of pentacles 6. 10 of pentacles 7. 6 of swords

        Guess he wasn’t too impressed either! Perhaps he thinks I am as boring as I think he is. lol How would he know, he didn’t ask me one thing about myself (red flag!!) while I asked a lot about him. I’m not sure if he was weaving in some embellishments in there as well.

        (or…not sure if he could feel my disinterest – 4 cups – and hence the retreat in the 6 of swords)

        I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt; people can be nervous, for example, or take time to open up but I’m fine with letting this one go. And by the 6 of swords, looks like he is too.

        Ah well, you never know if you don’t try. Next! 🙂

  21. Hello :),

    1. The fool: this is his persona. He often talks about himself as a wanderer, no home, living everyday as it comes.

    2.) knight of wands: he’s thinking of me sexually? He’s impatient to get in my pants? This ones unclear to me.

    3.) the lovers: he sees me as his lover, his soulmate? I really do feel we have a soulmate connection, and I have pulled this card in other readings about our relationship 3 times in the past year.

    4.) eight of wands: he keeps himself busy.

    5.) ace of wands: not too sure on this one, he has a lot of mental energy.

    6.) four of cups: I can easily see this as him being indecisive about the offer (of love) I’m giving him. He’s been hurt in the past and expressive to me about his hesitation to open up again.

    1. Hi Beth, the Knight of Wands is probably saying what you think it is and also tells us that he knows intellectually he does not have much else to offer. The Lovers shows doubt about choosing a relationship with you, probably because of the aforementioned reasons. The Ace of Wands is not his thoughts or mental energy but represents an outside influence. It could be an invitation to hook up sexually or to start a new creative endeavour. Blessings, Lisa

    2. I see sex sex sex. I honestly don’t see more than that there. The fool as in he likes to be footloose and fancy free. Knight of wands he is a bit of a player, he likes the physical aspect. The lovers – well lovers don’t have to be connected with ‘love’. 8 of wands literally for action. And Ace of wands – when in these cards it’s relatively self explanatory in a physical sense. 4 of cups imo speaks of him not noticing what you want him to. I could easily be miles off the mark as people see different cards in different ways but if I was reading for someone that is what I would see there…very plainly a physical situation with not much more to be gleaned from it

      1. I would agree with you totally except I know this guy is not a player, but as Lisa said above, I agree he probably thinks sex is all he can offer. I think this ties in directly to the fool, and the way he presents himself/chooses to live. Really interesting interpretation because we’ve only had sex once (almost 6 months ago), but I can tell the interest is still there. He’s pretty aware of my feelings for him however, so it would also make sense the lovers is indecisiveness, which would also confirm the four of cups (I don’t think he’s going to make up his mind for quite a while, but I’m sure he’s all for hooking up again).

        Thanks guys!

  22. I did this reading for how my long term polyamorous lover feels, and I’ve also just recently started dating a woman (They plan to both meet up soon as we’re all out in the open).

    1) Strength
    2) 2 Cups
    3) Hierophant
    4) The Star
    5) The Chariot
    6) Q of Wands

    I love the 2cups, and I think he feels empowered (Strength) and hopeful for the future dynamic (The star) while he’s also busy doing his own stuff (the Chariot)

    However the two cards I question are the Hierophant, as I don’t see that as much of a feeling card? And court cards ! Is the Q of Wands the lady in question? Another woman in his life, or me… I feel it to be her, it even looks just like her 🙂 but I continue to struggle with court cards..

    1. The Hierophant is a card of stability rather than great passion at the level of the heart. He’s not going anywhere and his thoughts of you are loving as shown by the 2 of Cups so nothing to worry about as far as his feelings for you are concerned… However, The Chariot followed by the Queen of Wands shows her moving in with great force and taking up a lot of space in this relationship. You may not end up feeling as comfortable as he does. Blessings, Lisa

      1. She is a great force ! I missed the chariot connection there… I feel it’s heading towards a Triad in which case I’d be the more beta of the two, so all makes sense.

        Thank you for your feedback Lisa, I adore they way you interpret the cards.

  23. I got
    1) his story- 7 cups – he’s confused surrounded by bad influences
    2) what he really is thinking- 2 swords- he’s indesive, not letting emotions or in out can’t see what’s infront of him
    3) how he feels deep down – magician- hiding feelings
    4) how he walks his talk- page of swords- acts immature
    5)outside influences – 6 cups – thinking about our past break up maybe he’s doubting trying again
    6) how will it be in 6-8 weeks – 10 wands- it’s not going to be easy but we will do it

    Help please 🙂

    1. Hi Dana, which card are you stuck on? You seem to have it figured out… although, I don’t see the 10 of Wands as things ultimately working out but continued struggles if you go down this path (not saying they will never work out but for the next couple of months, it’s not likely). The 6 of Cups is not his thoughts but actual outside influences… It could be you or someone else coming back into his life. Blessings

  24. So I got
    1- 3 of cups: he’s in a good place and happy with his situation
    2-10 of pents: maybe our dynamic is something that brings a well rounded and stable feeling
    3-the devil: he doesn’t think he wants to be with me. Thinks i will keep him tied down
    4-4 of wands: he’s open to the idea of being with me? Odd placement since I’m the she devil lol
    5-7 of cups: he is at a point where he needs to make a decision and hasn’t yet. He is wary or imagining too much
    6-the star: there’s something to look forward to. Whether it be forward movement into a relationship or not, it will be positive.

    To me, the star stands as a wish card. I’m just a bit thrown off by the 3rd card. All the others seemed very positive. Some input would be amazing

    1. Hi Jessica, the Devil represents his feelings, not his thoughts… at the level of the heart it means that he is not available for true love, no matter what the other cards say… this really is the key card as it shows his true intent: in love, the heart rules the ultimate outcome. The 7 of Cups is not about where he is at as it represents an outside influence… and as such would be someone who confuses or tempts him. Blessings, Lisa

  25. I got:

    1- Ace of Wands: He has a lot going for him right now. He is confident in what he wants in his life at this moment.

    2- 5 of Pentacles: Maybe he’s worried about making ends meet.

    3- Queen of Swords: He sees me as someone with my heart caged up. Maybe a bit cold. Someone guarding myself from being hurt.

    4-10 of Wands: I guess to go along with the Ace hes keeping himself busy.

    5- 3 of cups: I take this as either there is a friend influencing the mind set. Or maybe he is happy where he is in his everyday life.

    6- The Tower: This means that there will be a shift of sorts in his life.

    All together maybe I am more trouble than I am worth. He has his own things he is prioritizing and maybe love isn’t one of them. Maybe his perception of me and/or what he is seeking from life may change. Maybe the 3 indicates a friendship growing and an opening up leading to the Tower? Maybe it all goes to shit in the end.

    I guess confused with the first two. Is his story and what he’s thinking what is going on in his life/mind all together or as it pertains to you and your current relationship with them? Nevermind the fact it’s been months since I’ve picked up my deck. I feel like I’m starting from scratch.

    1. Yeah, this one’s not worth the trouble – very clear reading. The card in position 3 must be read as how he FEELS about you – the Queen of Swords there is a very cold card… No love lost here! The 3 of Cups as an outside influence probably means another woman on the scene too… Blessings, Lisa

  26. 1. 2 of cups – he is showing love
    2. The World clarified by 6 of cups – for him it’s already over and in the past
    3. Justice clarified by Knight of Cups – could it be that he still feels for me and is trying to make a decision?
    4. King of pentacles – he is really taking his time
    5. 10 of cups clarified by 7 of wands – he is happy as he is and does not want a relationship. Maybe he is in a relationship already?
    6. Ace of cups clarified by empress – seems pretty obvious – he will fall in love with another woman

    Could there be some more positive interpretations? I’m new to tarot and perhaps don’t get things right yet…

    1. Hi Diana, I see you commented on three different spreads asking for clarification. The problem is that you are reading on the same situation and the cards WILL invariably start messing with you – changing spreads won’t prevent that. I suggest putting the cards to one side for at least a couple of weeks and then choosing the spread that best answers your most burning questions. At least, you’ve had a practice go now with three different spreads so it wasn’t a total waste of time 🙂 Blessings, Lisa

  27. I absolutely adore your website and will be getting the ebooks 😉

    I did this spread on a guy I worked with recently full time over the summer. He’s back full time at his other job, so I won’t be seeing him as much. Our chemistry is mind blowing, the kind everyone sees even when you’re not talking. He has hinted but hasn’t made a move yet. *Back story*

    Please help =)

    1)4 of pentacles- I feel like he’said withholding, or just being plain stubborn about how he feels.

    2)Strength- I tame him. He always matches my energy. He’s several years older than me and I didn’t realize until the other day that he does every thing I ask him to- even when I’m joking.

    3)Wheel of Fortune- That it’should destiny from the day we met. I just moved across the country and we never would have met under normal circumstances.

    4)10 of pentacles- He’s in the process of buying a house and establishing himself to have something significant to offer.

    5) Ace of Swords- I think his head is in line with his heart

    6)The Empress- maybe that’s the time to harvest love??

    1. Hmm.. I’m unsure as to why my comment is being ignored and everyone else that asks gets a response in a day or less. Was my question rude or unworthy of an answer?

      1. Hi Rogue, I have been away on holiday and can assure you it is nothing personal. 5 – Ace of Swords as an outside influence feels like a test of some kind. It could very well reflect a distracting influence that demands a lot of communication. 6 – The Empress… Are you sure you are the ONLY woman he is flirting with right now? Blessings, Lisa

  28. I’m fairly new at reading so when I done this spread I got
    1.) 8 of Pentacles:I’m going to have to work for anything I want with him romantically
    2.) King of Cups (reversed): Hes not thinking about love where I am involved or he is torn emotionally
    3.)7 of Wands: not romantically
    4.)Ace of Swords: he is looking for a relationship
    5.)Empress revered: indecisiveness
    6.)Justice: he will have made a decision one way or the other
    My question really is am I even close to interpreting these cards correctly? 3, 4 and 6 really threw me any input would be apprecited.

  29. I just did this spread about a guy I dated for the last 8 months and the results are as follows:
    1) His Story – 4 of Swords
    2) What he is thinking – 10 of Wands
    3) How he really feels about me – 3 of cups
    4) How he is walking his talk – 6 of pentacles
    5) Outside influences – 8 of cups
    6) How will he walk his talk in 6-8 weeks – Knight of cups

    We had just split up but were very happy together. The reason for the split… We will both move to separate continents and ain’t sure of our real feelings for one another. I personally feel that love is too soon for such a short period. It grows but I really really like him. Please advise.

    1. Hi Scintilla, you need to provide your own interpretation and then I can help with any card you may be stuck on. Cheers, Lisa

  30. Hello I recently tried your spread, initially using it for my feelings first so I didn’t project.

    We haven’t spoken in awhile but have gotten word he has asked about me and was curious as to what was there…I pulled for him

    1. What he is telling me: 6 of cups – he is/was remembering the past, he looks at it fondly? Perhaps the door is still open if I chose to walk through.
    2. What he is thinking: King of cups – does he have tender thoughts towards me or does he think I am being too passive and wants me to act?
    3. What he is feeling: Moon, I think he sees me in his dreams sometimes, we used to be very psychically connected, perhaps he is unclear of me/what I want where I am? I pulled a qualifier which was the magician — he sees me as magic, mystery?
    4. How he is walking his talk: page of swords – he doesn’t want to talk about the past, even though he is saying he has thought about it.
    5. outside influences: High Priestess – I am assuming I am that outside influence as I am the high priestess, perhaps waiting to see what springs up is the message, maybe in the past I told him I would come when I was ready?
    6. How he will be walking his talk 6-8 weeks: Reversed King of Pentacles – he will not call or contact, will continue going about his business

    Thoughts? Please.

    Thank you


  31. This spread is super interesting to me. Thank you for posting it. I’m working with the Deviant Moon deck for this reading:

    1. 2 of Swords: Indecision, choices, stalemate
    Making a difficult decision, or refusal/inability to make one. I initially thought this might be an indication that he was in a relationship, but in our conversation the day after I did this reading, he referred to the person I thought he was dating as ‘a friend.’ We also work together, technically I’m his superior, so the difficult decision might be whether or not something between us would be worthwhile. I don’t know this person well, so I don’t know much of ‘his story.’ Judging by it’s placement next to 5 of cups, it could also be indecision about starting something new.
    2. 5 of Cups (reversed): New relationships, return of a past friend
    He’s thinking that he’s ready to pick up the two remaining cups and move on. He’s ready to engage with the world again after disappointment.
    3. Judgement (reversed): Guilty feelings, worry, delay
    Self-doubt and self-judgement; Feeling the need to slow down and not jump to conclusions; Fear of the unknown; Re-living the past. Perhaps he feels that he can’t (or isn’t ready to) move on. His past is still present in his life and he’s struggling to deal with it.
    4. The World (reversed): Frustration, incomplete endeavors
    Lack of closure; Perhaps things didn’t end well in his last relationship and he is feeling guilty or frustrated (given that judgement is directly before). Indecision about what he wants (next to 2 of Swords).
    5. The Lovers: Love, romance, union
    There is a relationship (or partnership) that is influencing his decision making. Contemplating a choice between partners; new love interest; looking for a union or partnership. Perhaps he had a strong connection to someone in the past and is looking for that again.
    6. Queen of Wands: Sincere, confidence (I’ve always identified with this card, both in the upright and reversed positions)
    Fire; Leo (which I am); I feel like the proximity to The Lovers in this reading it telling me that those characteristics of the Queen of Wands are more foretelling of the partnership (The Lovers) than a person. Or maybe it’s an outcome position in the sense that he may feel more confident, etc. after making a decision.

    Side note: Isn’t The World, The Lovers and Queen of Wands a recipe for amazing sex? 😉

    This reading feels much different today than when I first looked at it. At first it felt like all positives and I think I was just looking at the points that I wanted to be true. This time it seems much more about choices (which I either ,didn’t see before or ignored). Of course, I’m still very new to interpreting,so I could be way off base here. Either way, it looks like he has a lot on his mind even if it isn’t about me.

    1. Hi Tiffany, I can’t quite see The World, The Lovers and the Queen of Wands as amazing sex here based on his energy and the fact that he is most likely in a relationship with someone else. I don’t read with reversals. Here is why: It is more important to read the cards in context of each other. If you look at the column representing this guy you can clearly see someone who is not ready to move forward. The Queen of Wands (I have her as Aries, btw) may end up forcing the issue.

  32. Hi Lisa, great site. Your article on tarot 9’s was what led me here. I did your spread for “how the really feel”. I got following cards1) queen of pentacles 2)five of cups 3)Devil 4)Ace of wands 5)Devil 6)Empress. My understanding is that he finds me earthy and sensual but regrets not being able to reach out to me (don’t know why!!). He is obsessed with my thoughts and wants a physical relationship with me. Empress is the outcome here. It sounds to me that it means he will either have a relationship with me or just that he feels that I am like the Empress.He has not shared his feelings with me yet. Does the Empress mean that he will share his feelings with me or does it mean that he will have a relationship with me? Please guide.


    1. Hi MJ, do you know if this man is already spoken for or not? To me this looks a lot like someone who is already in a relationship.

      1. Hi Lisa, I don’t know if he is in a relationship. So is he thinking of me as the other woman (he might be a player) or could it be that the spread is pointing out that he is considering relationship with someone else. He has given me signs that he is interested.


        1. You really need to find out if he is in a relationship before you progress this. Whether or not he is interested is not really important if he is in a committed relationship. I always recommend using common sense to find the facts out before you do this type of reading. Like I said, it looks very much like he is spoken for.

          1. Thank you Lisa for your guidance and for sharing your insight. I am still new to Tarot and try to use these situations in my life as a way to increase my knowledge as well.


  33. 1. 6 of cups- he is really thinking about his past and people in it. Good and bad and is reflecting on it all
    2. Hermit- closed off, going though something hard, sad, doesn’t wanna talk about it. Refecting his past decisions. Possibly confused
    3. 9 cups everything he has ever wanted? A dream come true, perfect for him? He wishes to be with me. He thinks we would be good together but possibly afraid or confused or not ready
    Maybe because he is hurt from the recent breakup
    4. Chariot- he just left for a trip. He needed to get away from town for a little while maybe to think and heal. Maybe because he isn’t ready to do anything.
    5. King cups- help advice from a friend or family, guidance. Help him decide or feel better about any issue
    6. 7 of wands- idk is he too stubborn to make a move or will never make up his mind or get the courage to make a move finally and make a move.
    -7 wands as outcome is weird. Idk if that is good or bad really

    1. Hi Katie, I find that in the case of doing this reading about a male person, the card about where their head is at really sets the tone since many men do let their head rule their heart. I have yet to see a case where the Hermit showed up in this position and there was the hoped for outcome. He has decided to withdraw and if the 6 of Cups (Sun in Scorpio) is anything to go about, he can be very stubborn. The 7 of Wands also tells us that there is no romance on the cards here… although if you persist in being in touch, there may be arguments (pride is the issue). Blessings, Lisa

  34. Hi lisa,
    I really cant interpret my reading well.

    1) 10 the wheel
    2) 16 the tower
    3) 7 the chariot
    4) strength
    5) knight of wands
    6) page of cups

    Thanks 🙂

    1. Hi Danielle, you need to at least try. I’m happy to help on any card or combo you are a bit stuck on once you have provided your own interpretation. This is not a free reading service. Cheers

  35. Hi Lisa ,

    Great Spread : 1) The Emperor 2) Judgement 3) 9 of swords 4) 2 of Pents 5) 6 of cups 6) 10 of cups

    He could be feeling stressed or having anxiety about deep feelings( or developing) in gen. Weighing his options on love and work which is more important or maybe having trouble balancing the two in his life. 6 of cups outside his daughter could be a strong influence on where he stands on having time for us I’m confused? 10 of cups Family over everything? I’m stumped by this if a positive ending for us and walking his talk in 6-8 weeks ?

    Overall and I on the right track Lisa?

    1. You need to step back from reading about this relationship for a while. You’re obsessing about it and you asked about the same relationship under another spread so I know for a fact that you’re seeking confirmation about the same relationship from the cards… only with a different spread this time. Asking about the same relationship over and over when you are attached to the outcome is NOT helpful. You will get confusing and ever more contradicting answers from the cards. Put the cards away and work on communicating with your man instead. Next week will probably be easier as Mercury goes direct on Sunday. Blessings, Lisa

  36. Hi,

    I did your spread a few days ago to see where it was going with myself and a work friend of mine. We have liked eachother and been speaking for a while now, and have recently become intimate, but I know he isn’t the relationship type and likes to be solitary, and I’m not really looking for a friend with benefits since I have feelings for him.

    1. His story – What he’s telling you/how things appear now – PAGE WANDS. I took this to mean that we have a lot of fun together, and things are easy with us. I certainly think so; we get along so well. He’s like my soulmate.

    2. What he’s really thinking -9 CUPS. I took this to mean that he enjoys our time together again. I have gotten this card for him before also. I read it can be perceived as sexual pleasure also, so could also mean he wants it to stay strictly as a friends with benefits thing.

    3. How he feels about you deep down – WHEEL OF FORTUNE – does this mean his feelings constantly change, and go from high to low intensity? They’re very changeable and fleeting?

    4. How he walks his talk – 3 SWORDS – this one confused me. I usually see this as heartbreak or betrayal. For how he walks his talk I didn’t see how he could feel that way as we’ve never argued and have been spending time together more. I figure it may mean a love triangle and a decision that he needs to make? I know there is another girl interested in him. Or that he isn’t ready for a relationship due to past pain.

    5. Outside influences on how he walks his talk – THE TOWER – a fear of change? Unexpected factors are at play? This one puzzled me.

    6. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks – KNIGHT WANDS – fleeting energy again? Sex and nothing more? Movement being made? A man not ready for a relationship? Romantic relationships blossom with the promise of an exciting sex life.

    I also pulled another card to see whether we’ll get into a relationship.

    7. Will we get into a relationship? I pulled the hermit and the King cups was directly under it and came out too. This is the most confusing as they contrast so strongly to me. Does it mean that he will not be with me because he needs to find himself and heal from a past relationship, or that we will be together because he is mature and knows what he feels, and may become hermit like in the way in which we spend time together? I also read that the hermit could represent a long distance relationship or agreed celibacy, which could be relevant as I’m going travelling all summer and will be away for nearly 3 months at some point.

    Am I on the right track? A spread I did on him before we got intimate told me he would be serious if he ever did get with me, but he was just unaware of me being interested to him – then when I made it clear he instigated. Is it a good idea to pursue him? I don’t want to chase him wanting a relationship if he doesn’t want one at all.

    1. The Page and Knight of Wands speak of a man who is very happy indeed to continue along the no strings, friends-with-benefits only path. The Wheel often shows an opportunistic (I’ll take whatever is on offer) attitude. But more than that… Please use common sense and learn from this if you are looking for love. Once you give the milk away for free, a guy will never pay for it. Sorry if I sound unevolved by stating this old cliché but I have very little evidence to support it isn’t actually true… Have some boundaries in love. Know your worth. Blessed Be!

      1. Thanks for your reply. I can see what you are saying.

        I was just wondering what your take was of position 4, 5, 6 and 7, as well, as those have really stumped me.


          1. Hello again.

            I got the page of pentacles for the best way forward for myself in the situation. I took it as a need to slow down, be practical, see things as they are, and let nature take its course/be still and ready.

            Am I on the right track?

  37. Hi, I am very new to tarot and am struggling with how to interpret this spread, however I will try my best.
    I have performed this spread about an ex (who I am still crazily in love with) who moves away for a few months in a matter of days. He has told me that when he gets back we should see how it goes, but I find myself second guessing everything.
    I will try and interpret this in my own way, but if you feel that I am interpreting wrong, much help would be appreciated!
    1. 9 Cups (That this is a great time of stress for him and he feels that currently we are unable to give our relationship a shot at this current time?)
    2. 9 Swords (Perhaps that this current life change will bring new opportunities for him that may not include me?)
    3. 9 Pentacles (Perhaps that deep down he seeks my company, and thinks that when he is settled we could give our relationship another try?)
    4. Five Cups Reversed (May feel that one of us needs to move on – I have absolutely no idea how to take this card)
    5. The Hermit (He perhaps needs time to be alone and reflect on his life and job before he can commit to me?)
    6. The Hierophant (Perhaps that over the coming weeks he may feel in a better place to be able to commit to a relationship with me?)
    As I say I am a complete newbie when it comes to tarot and I could be completely wrong! Any help would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you so much!!

    1. Why would you want to be with a guy who keeps you second-guessing? Draw a line under the past when he moves away. Start over and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. Don’t use the Tarot to overrule common sense.

  38. Please help recently talked to a boy from recentl past. He’s seeing a therapist now and says he wants to work on us ect
    1- 7 pentecles lots of thinking and prossessing msybe also working hard in school
    2. Ace cups fresh start. New hope. Beliving in us. New beginning
    3. Temperance- more of a balance in emotions between us,joining together, healing past issues between us
    4 . 3 wand. Maybe thinking? Working? Nervous? Avoiding ?idk
    5. 9 pentacles idk somethings to do with charity work or maybe his family? The therapist?
    6. Treating me better the before, kind, more emotionally available, caring, ect
    I’m do confused about the 3 of wands and9 pentecles?

    1. If he says he wants to work on it the 7 of Pentacles confirms he wants to work on the relationship and that he wants to take things slowly. Work with him by taking it slowly together. If you are to read on this, read on what YOU can do to make it work… that would be way more beneficial to both of you at this stage.

  39. I tried to spread and the cards coming out

    1 – Death
    2 – the lovers
    3 – the sun
    4 – five of swords
    5 – queen of pentacles
    6 – queen of cups

    Could you please help me read the cards? Thank you

    1. Hi Jannie, welcome to Angelorum! This is how it works here if you need a hand with interpreting a reading: 1) Provide your own interpretation 2) Ask for specific advice on any card(s) you are stuck on. Cheers, Lisa

      1. 1 – the Death . He told me his feelings for me has ended, and he has someone else
        2 – The lovers – the beak up is inevitable
        3 – The sun – he feels warm with me
        4 – five of swords – learning from his past and move on
        5 – queen of pentacles – maybe indicate his new gf
        6 – queen of cups – he totally moves on

        Hi Lisa, this spread is about my past love. I actually did another spread of four cards and asked how i feel , how he feel, what happens next and the final outcome. It happens more than twice the two cards what happens next and final is the strenght and knight of cups. First time i draw, it was the lovers on th cards.
        I dont know if we have a chance again.

        Thank you.

        1. Hi,

          Again, i am stuck with the death card because i dont understand why i draw out this one.

          The second card is the queen of cups. The queens of cups indicate a queen have all things and now kist enjoy her life. Does this mean that he truly move on totally and enjoy with other girl?

          Thank you.

  40. hey I need help please on a man who i recently had a weird breakup with.

    1- 6 pentacles ( maybe he feels like he is doing me a favor, or he might feel self pitty)
    2- lovers- (he feels something, but does not know for sure what it really is, might be scared, maybe someone else)
    3-hermit- ( shut off, avoiding his true feelings, needs to be alone and way to figure it all out)
    4- 3 swords – (hurt from his past, scared, lonely, sad about love in general)
    5- sun- (growing, learning about himself and what he wants, good roll models, good friends, healing)
    6- magician-( finally having everything he needs and has grown, is ready to communicate, brave, has everything he needs and wants to be back together maybe slowly because of hermit)

      1. Hi Sasha, your interpretation seems pretty spot on. The Hermit is a sign that he is finding it difficult to connect with others emotionally. He could be an introvert and prefer his own company/comfort zone. The Lovers + the 6 of Pentacles tells us that he his thoughts are very much about whether or not he can ‘afford’ this relationship – not necessarily from a financial point of view but in terms of energy expenditure. He’s hurting now and his skies are grey (3 of Swords)… but the sun will soon shine again from clear skies, as the outside circumstances tell us. The Magician then means that he will be ready to communicate again. I always suggest setting a time frame for this spread of no more than 6-8 weeks. Blessings

  41. I did this spread on someone I’m just starting to get to know;
    1) What he’s showing me – four of swords, he’s taking a break from relationships and working on himself..
    2) What he’s really thinking – five of wands, he’s conflicted about what he wants, or there is a lot of things going on in his life that are stressful..
    3) What he feels about me deep down – nine of wands, he’s defensive and on guard about me
    4) How he’s walking his talk – four of cups, same as the four of swords, not in the frame of mind for relationships…
    5) Outside influences on his walk – king of pentacles, this is his court card, or it could represent the new business he’s taking over which is pretty stressful
    6) How he will be walking his talk in 6-8 weeks – ten of cups this one has me confused… ? Things will change for the better, his attitude and feelings will change?

  42. 1) The King of Wands he’s telling me he’s passionate and driven. 2) the strength card he wants to tame the situation or have his ego stroked. 3) the world he feels like I’m closed off and unattainable. 4) 6 of cups he’s thinking of the past. 5) five of cups outside influences.. Disappointments with people? 6) six of words he’s going to move on from this situation.

    1. Okay so I thought about this a little more.. 1) king of wands is what he’s telling me. I keep getting the feeling of him wanting to be in charge. Like he wants everything in order.. That he’s out trying to handle business I’m guessing. 2) the strength card what he’s really thinking. At first I wasn’t sure if i was suppose to be the lion or he was. lol so I looked at the king of wands and realize he has the lion in his background so I figured he was the lion. The strength shows the woman caressing the lion. It doesn’t seem sexual but more like calming. She seems like she’s nurturing to him. 3) the world how he really feels.. I keep getting the feeling from the card that he’s trying to get in but he can’t. Like I’m out of reach. 4) the 6 of cups as him walking his talk.. He’s being immature, he’s relying on me. I’m actually not too sure about this one. 5) the 5 of cups.. There has been many disappointments along the way. He’s not seeing the bigger picture, just what he lost along the way. 6) the 6 of swords I still see him leaving.

  43. Let’s see I got position 1. Chariot 2. Two of swords 3. Temperance 4. King of swords 5. Hermit reversed 6. 9 of swords. My interpretation? Don’t bother, there’s not a chance in sight. Am I right?

  44. What he’s telling me – Ace of pentacles, he’s a grounded, realistic and practical person with a lot of opportunities on the rise.
    What he’s really thinking – Strength ? This one stumps me.. It could be he’s either trying to push back feelings of love with practical thoughts or he’s trying to hold back being impatient or angry with me? Not sure..
    How he really feels – Three of pentacles, he enjoys being with me and thinks we’re building something worthwhile?
    How he’s walking his talk – Five of wands, he is vying for my attention?
    Outside influences – Knight of pentacles, maybe someone just as practical as he is, is giving him advice on me. Or could be that he was raised to be cautious, slow moving and school oriented?

    Not too sure I interpreted these cards right… What are your thoughts, especially on the three of pentacles as his feelings?

  45. Hi

    I did this and got :-

    1. 5 of Penacles
    2. 9 of Cups
    3. Page of Wands
    4. 6 of Cups
    5. 8 of Swords
    6. The Star

    I really am confused how he feels . Any insights I would be so grateful.

    K x

    1. Hi Kerri, welcome to Angelorum. This is how it works, you give us your interpretation of the spread and then ask questions about any card you are stuck on. Cheers 🙂

      1. Hi

        Ah sorry thanks for letting me know .

        I am new to tarot so here goes :-
        1. What he is telling you- 5 of Penacles
        I am unsure what to make of this as suggests feeling left out in the cold. As if he is troubled in some way but unclear why . I am not with this guy he is committed to someone else so maybe he is not happy in his relationship.
        2. What he is really thinking – 9 of Cups
        I think cups suit relates to emotions suggesting that he is happy with the situation he is in . I did message him and he was polite and said ‘his girlfriend would not be happy’. I can tell he likes me but maybe I am getting the wrong signals . So no idea what he would be thinking.
        3. How he feels deep down- Page of Wands
        I always thought the page represented a child or a messenger. I am thinking maybe he is immature feels nervous about me.
        4. How he is walking his talk – 6 of Cups
        I thought this card indicated a soulmate relationship so could be he has found his soulmate . Looking at meanings seems to relate to thoughts but cannot pinpoint how with regards to myself. Or maybe he is not thinking of me at all.
        5. Outside influences – 8 of Swords
        I do not see this as a very positive card since since the woman is bound and blindfolded . Feeling trapped and not knowing which way to go .
        6. How he will be walking his talk in 6-8 weeks- The Star
        I think he is physically attracted to me but does not see me as a potential girlfriend . I would add that I am usually really good with my instincts and I really felt a chemistry between us. I just must have misinterpreted this as more than what it is. Time to move from the situation I think x

        1. The fact that he is in committed relationship is surely enough to move along? I won’t even comment on the reading. It’s against my reader’s ethics to read on a situation where either party is in a committed monogamous relationship with someone else.

          1. Thanks. It was more my judgment of him and not realising what the situation was until I was told x

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