Happy Valentine’s Day, Angel Hearts! For today’s pick-a-pile readings, we are looking at guidance on how to surrender to love so that love can manifest harmonious relationships with self and others through us. These three-card Tarot readings will guide you, whether you are looking for a greater connection to your true Self or a new romantic partner. So go ahead and pick the rose you feel most drawn to above and then click the relevant link below.
- Yellow Rose – Surrender to Love Reading 1
- Pink Rose – Surrender to Love Reading 2
- Red Rose – Surrender to Love Reading 3
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What It Means to Surrender to Love
Surrendering to love means releasing the need to control, judge, or resist the flow of life and relationships. It’s about trusting that love, in its purest form, is always present within and around us, even when challenges arise. When we surrender, we let go of the ego’s demands for perfection or specific outcomes and instead embrace the present moment with openness and compassion. This doesn’t mean we ignore boundaries; rather, it’s an active choice to align with the heart’s wisdom and allow love to guide our actions and reactions. Surrendering to love is a practice of faith—faith in ourselves, in others, and in the ability of God-Source to restore harmony when we release fear and resistance.
When we feel tempted to react from a place of judgment—whether toward ourselves or others—we can surrender by pausing and reconnecting with the indwelling eternal love in our hearts. All it takes is a deep breath and the intention…
The WWLD (What Would Love Do?) Practice
So take a deep breath and allow your mind to drop into your heart. Remind yourself that love is always accessible, even in moments of frustration or hurt. Ask yourself: What would Love do here? How can I respond from a place of compassion rather than fear? By shifting your focus from the mind’s critical chatter to the heart’s gentle guidance, you create space for understanding and forgiveness. This practice helps dissolve reactivity and allows you to approach situations with clarity and grace.
Be Patient and Kind to Yourself
Returning to a state of surrender is a continuous journey, not a one-time event. It requires patience and self-compassion, especially when old patterns of control or judgment resurface. Tools like meditation, journaling, or simply sitting in quiet reflection can help you realign. Affirmations such as “I trust the wisdom of my heart” or “I release the need to control and allow love to flow through me” can also anchor you in this mindset.
Remember, love is not something you need to earn or force—it’s your soul’s natural state. By choosing surrender again and again, you cultivate a life rooted in authenticity, harmony, and deep connection.
Yellow Rose – Pile 1
1. Current State of Your Heart
The 7 of Cups suggests that your heart may feel overwhelmed or scattered at this moment. You could be daydreaming about love or idealising relationships, but there’s a sense of confusion about what you truly desire. Your heart is open to possibilities, but it’s also guarded by the fear of making the wrong choice or being disappointed.
2. Healing Needed
The Hanged Man, the ultimate surrender card in the deck, indicates that the healing you need comes from a shift in perspective. You may be holding onto old beliefs or patterns that keep you stuck in a cycle of overthinking or indecision. The wound here is a reluctance to let go of control and trust the process. Surrender requires you to pause, reflect, and see things from a new angle, with (metaphorically speaking) your head above your heart.
Pathway to an Open Heart
Once your new perspective emerges, the 3 of Wands encourages you to take a bold step forward with hope and vision. This card suggests that by focusing on your long-term desires and trusting in the journey, you can open your heart with confidence. It’s about embracing vulnerability while keeping your eyes on the horizon. Know that that your loving heart will attract reciprocal love in divine timing and that you already are the love that you seek.
Pink Rose – Pile 2
1. Current State of Your Heart
The 5 of Swords reveals that your heart may feel guarded due to past conflicts or power struggles. You might be carrying the weight of unresolved tension or a sense of defeat, which has led to walls being built around your heart. There’s a hesitancy to fully engage with love, as you may fear being hurt or betrayed again.
2. Healing Needed
The 3 of Swords highlights a deep emotional wound that needs attention—perhaps a past heartbreak or betrayal that still lingers. This card asks you to acknowledge the pain rather than bury it. Healing comes through allowing yourself to grieve and release the hurt, making space for new love to enter.
3. Pathway to an Open Heart
The 9 of Cups is a beautiful sign that emotional fulfilment and joy are within reach. This card encourages you to focus on self-love and gratitude, as these are the keys to opening your heart. By celebrating the love you already have in your life and trusting that more is on its way, you can move forward with a sense of optimism and trust.
Red Rose – Pile 3
1. Current State of Your Heart
The King of Wands suggests that your heart is passionate and full of life, but it may also be guarded by a need to maintain control or independence. You’re someone who leads with confidence, but this can sometimes create barriers to fully surrendering to love. Your heart is open to connection, but only on your terms.
2. Healing Needed
The 3 of Cups points to the healing power of community and joy. You may need to address any feelings of isolation or self-reliance that keep you from leaning on others. This card invites you to celebrate love in all its forms—friendship, family, and romance—and to recognise that vulnerability doesn’t diminish your strength.
3. Pathway to an Open Heart
The 2 of Pentacles reminds you that love requires balance and adaptability. To move forward, you’ll need to juggle your desire for independence with the willingness to be vulnerable. This card encourages you to embrace the ebb and flow of relationships, trusting that you can navigate challenges while keeping your heart open and your spirit light.
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