The Ultimate Tarot Guide to Manifesting True Love

Are you single and hoping to meet your True Love, Soul Mate or Twin Flame? Do you love the Tarot and want to use it to manifest your best relationship yet? If so, this guide to manifesting true love is the right place! I’m here to walk you through the process of using Tarot for manifesting true love. It worked for me — I met Mr. Right at age 44, and we’ve been going strong ever since (and that was 11 years ago!). Now, I’m ready to share these powerful methods with you.

Go to:

• The Single and Happy Tarot Spread
• The Future Lover Tarot Spread
• The Happy Kitteh Dating Tarot Spread (Your Dating Strategy)
• Top 10 Dating Tips for the HSP
• An Angelic Love Tarot Spell
• If It Ain’t Broke, Don’t Fix It

CLICK HERE for Love Tarot Card Meanings and HERE for more Love Tarot Spreads!

Be Happy In Your Own Skin First

The foundation of any great relationship starts with you. When you’re content with who you are, you attract positive people into your life. Use the Single and Happy Tarot Spread to check in with your own happiness and lay the groundwork for love. Remember: once you’re happy within yourself, everything else falls into place. This will make you a magnet for positive, like-minded souls.

1. The Sun – You! Your vitality levels
2. Mercury – Your self-talk
3. Venus – Friendships
4. Mars – Opposition
5. Jupiter – Career opportunities/Good fortune
6. Saturn – Your obligations
7. Uranus – Unexpected future events
8. Neptune – Your dreams, goals and aspirations
9. Pluto – What is changing/needs to change
10. The Moon – Emotional challenge (stands between you and being 100% happy). This card, Pluto (change) and Mercury (self-talk) form the key to unlocking the missing ingredient for complete and total self-fulfilment.

Who Do You See Yourself With?

It’s essential to know what to look for in a partner — and it may not be what you expect! We all have a “type,” but if I had a penny for every person who said, “They weren’t really my type…” about the love of their life, I’d be sipping margaritas on my private island right now.

Use the Future Lover Tarot Spread to check what qualities Spirit suggests you seek out for a lasting, meaningful relationship.

Before You Begin:
Choose two significators:

• One Court Card that represents you and your personality.
• One Major Arcana Soul Card based on your Soul Card calculation (you can find how to calculate this [HERE]).

Why Two?

• If the Court Card surfaces first, it signals a new relationship — no past life/karmic baggage.
• If the Major Arcana card surfaces first, you’re looking at a soulmate or soul group connection, i.e. someone you have a past-life connection with.

Whether this is someone you’ve already met in this lifetime or someone brand-new is indicated later by the Ace of Cups (new love) or the 6 of Cups (past connection).

Future Lover Tarot Reading for Manifesting True Love

1. Shuffle Your Deck:
   Focus on manifesting true love — envision meeting your future partner, how you want to feel, and the life you’ll build together.
2. Create Three Piles:
   After shuffling, divide the deck into three piles.
3. Choose the Pile to Read From:
   Turn over the top card of each pile. Select the pile with the highest-ranking card:
   • Majors trump Minors.
   • Among Minors, higher numbers beat lower.
   • If numbers tie, Elemental ranking decides: Fire > Water > Air > Earth.
4. Find Your Significator:
   Search the selected pile without disturbing the order — gently fan through the cards.
   • If both your significators are present, the Major Arcana takes precedence.
   • If neither significator appears, the universe is giving you a “not yet” message — wait a few weeks before trying again.
5. Locate the Romance Indicator:
   Still working within the chosen pile, search for either:
   • Ace of Cups (new lover)
   • 6 of Cups (someone you’ve already met)
   If neither card shows up, once again, you’re not meant to explore this topic right now. Give it time.

Timing Clue:

• The closer the Ace/6 of Cups is to the bottom of the pile, the sooner you’ll meet your person.
  (Example: if it’s two-thirds of the way through the pile, expect about 8 months.)

Reading the Nine-Card Love Story

Once you find the Ace or 6 of Cups:

• Take four cards before and four cards after the indicator card (9 cards total, including the Ace or 6).
• If you’re at the end of the pile, wrap around from the bottom.

Lay them out in a 3×3 grid:

1   2   3
4   5   6
7   8   9

(5 is your central card: the Ace or 6 of Cups.)

This layout forms the 9-Square Story Spread.
There are no positional meanings — let the images speak to you intuitively!

• The surrounding cards provide deeper insight into your future lover’s personality, circumstances of your meeting, and challenges or blessings on the path ahead.
• Pay attention to Court Cards, which may hint at your future partner’s Star Sign.

Tip:
Write down everything you notice, even if it seems random. These early impressions can become strikingly relevant later when your future lover manifests in real life!

What’s Your Strategy for Happy Dating?

Have a strategy for happy dating. While it would be wonderful if ‘The One’ just came knocking one day, we all know it usually doesn’t happen that way. That’s why it’s so important to combine clear thinking with intuitive feline-like inner knowing.

Use the Happy Kitteh Dating Tarot Spread to navigate dating like a pro feline:

1. Kitteh Sez: Gut feeling about the person/relationship.
2. Kitteh No Lyk: Red flags — what’s not sitting right?
3. Kitteh Do Lyk: What’s purr-fect about this connection?
4. Kitteh Do: Best next step based on your intuition.

Top 10 Dating Tips for the HSP

1. Expectations

Keep them low – I would even say non-existent – in terms of relationship potential. Don’t pin your future happiness on the other person and especially not before you know them. See a date as an opportunity to get to know a new friend and to simply have a good time. Anything else should be seen as a bonus and greeted as a pleasant surprise.

2. Keep it real

Many HSPs are prone to fantasy and daydreaming. Have a dating protocol and stick to it. For instance, no more than ten emails or text messages and then a phone call to make the voice connection. A first meet-up shortly after the coffee date variety is highly recommended. It’s easy to get carried away on fluffy pink fantasy clouds with someone you have gotten to know online, only to have your dreams crushed by the other person showing up and not matching the fantasy in real life. Zoom is free to download and an even better alternative than a phone call if you want to make sure the other person actually matches the person in the profile picture.

3. Stay safe

Never give out personal information until you know the other person is reliable and who they say they are. As an HSP, in addition to the common sense basics of not giving out your address, etc, you should always allow your intuition to guide you about how much personal information you share. Do you tell them where you work or train? Only if you don’t mind them showing up at your workplace or gym!

4. Avoid alcohol

Make sure the first date (or meet-up) is just a coffee (or herbal tea) date. You need your finely tuned intuitive powers to stay finely tuned during the precarious process of getting to know a new person. Yes, alcohol takes the edge off any nerves, but it also interferes with your intuition.

5. Avoid caffeine overload

Intake of caffeinated beverages before a date will make you anxious and jittery. If you are extremely sensitive to caffeine, you should avoid it on the actual date. Stick to soothing herbal teas.

6. Meet in public

Meet in a public place that you feel familiar with. You will find it easier to stay grounded and centred if you are in well-known and comfortable surroundings.

7. Arrange an escape route

Arrange with a friend to give you an ’emergency phone call’ about 15-20 minutes into the date, which you can ignore if you feel comfortable with your date.

8. Have your remedies at hand

Carry haematite or red jasper to stay grounded and tiger’s eye for confidence/SP chakra protection. Rose quartz promotes unconditional self-love. Bach rescue remedy in tablet form is great to carry with you too (especially if you didn’t Skype with them first and they look nothing like their profile picture). Lavender essential oil can calm your nerves before a date. Check your breathing. Just breathing deeply will make you feel better instantly if your breath has gone shallow due to the butterflies in your stomach.

9. Go Dutch

Paying for your half of the bill will prevent you from feeling obligated. Whether you like the other person or not, it’s always good to go home and ponder things after the first date. If you are asked out on a proper date after the initial meet-up, it’s OK to let them pay (or do whatever you are comfortable with).

10. Take it slow

No first-date drop-offs at your home. Boundaries are sexy!

BONUS TIP: Enjoy yourself! Life’s too short for boring dates!

CLICK HERE for an Internet Dating Vetting Tarot Spread you can use to check your date’s intentions before your first date!

Bring Out Your Inner Witch: Tarot Magick for Manifesting Love

Ready to sprinkle a little extra magic on your love journey? Create your own luck with a simple, heartfelt Tarot love spell!

Angelic Love Tarot Spell

What You’ll Need:

• Pretty paper and an envelope
• Your chosen Tarot card (see below)
• A white or pink candle

The Process:

1. Light your candle on a Friday (Venus’s day!) during a Waxing Moon or Full Moon.
2. Invoke your Guardian Angel and the Archangels of Love: Anael, Raphael, Raguel, and Chamuel.
3. Write a heartfelt letter to your angels, describing the kind of love you wish to manifest. Be specific, joyful, and polite — lots of “please” and “thank you” sprinkled in!
4. Include a Tarot card that symbolises your dream relationship:
   • The Lovers or 2 of Cups – True love
   • 6 of Cups – Someone from your past
   • 4 of Wands or 10 of Cups – Long-term commitment
   • 3 of Cups – Joyful polyamory
   • Knight of Cups – Romantic suitor, intense connection
5. Seal the letter and place it somewhere sacred — your altar, a special drawer, or under your pillow.

Important:
After casting your spell, take action!
Go out, meet people, say yes to opportunities — your angels are moving mountains, but you need to open the doors they unlock.

If It Ain’t Broke, Don’t Fix It!

Already found your match? Fantastic!
Now, step away from the Tarot deck.

Frequent love readings about a new relationship can create unnecessary anxiety. Let things unfold naturally. If you find yourself obsessively pulling cards, it’s a sign to work on relaxation and self-worth, not trying to predict the next phase of the relationship or doing ‘psychic spying’ to see if they are cheating.

Enjoy the journey. Trust the magic you’ve created.