In our Tarot Affirmations series, we are now arriving at affirmations for love, romance and relationships. As in yesterday’s post about physical healing affirmations, I have included Angelic correspondences for each of the cards. In Angelic Tarot, the main Tarot cards to work with for love and romance affirmations are the cards are mainly the cards that fall under the guardianship of Anael (Venus), Camael (Mars) and Raphael (Mercury).
It is up to you how in-depth you wish to go with each affirmation but strengthening the connection with your subconscious mind by turning the Tarot affirmation into a full-blown Tarot spell could be worth doing if you suspect that you still harbour doubts about your ability to manifest loving relationships deep down, due to past negative experiences or trauma. To use the Tarot card in your spellcasting simply place it on your altar, light the candle and charge it with your intent, either on its own or together with the suggested corresponding.
The deck used to illustrate each of the Angelic Tarot affirmations for love and romance is the Frideborg Tarot but you can, of course, use the affirmations with any deck that speaks to you.
Archangel Raphael Love Tarot Affirmations
Affirmation: My true love and I connect now through ether and both become aware that we each carry the other in our heart so that we will instantly recognise each other when we meet.
Tarot card: The Lovers
Zodiac correspondence: Gemini (ruled by Mercury/Archangel Raphael)
Intent: To call in your true love
When to use: On a new or waxing moon, alternatively on Ostara or Beltane
Candle/crystal magick: Light a green candle for the heart chakra, to open a telepathic line of communication between the two of you. Charge a green fluorite with the intent of being in communication with your beloved until you meet (including in dreamtime).
Affirmation: This is a fun and friendly first date.
Tarot card: 3 of Cups
Zodiac correspondence: Mercury (Archangel Raphael) in Cancer (Archangel Gabriel)
Intent: To make sure that a first date goes well
When to use: Any time before a first date
Candle/crystal magick: Light a yellow candle for smooth communication and charge a citrine for confidence, great conversation, optimism and friendship. When you focus the first date on building a solid foundation of friendship you create a win-win for everyone because many are ‘no sparkers’ but that doesn’t mean you can’t appreciate the other soul, learn something from them and inspire each other to seek more joy.
Affirmation: I allow my best and truest self to shine forth as I establish contact with (______) to see if there is a real connection
Tarot card: 8 of Wands
Zodiac correspondence: Mercury (Archangel Raphael) in Sagittarius (Archangel Sachiel)
Intent: To get the attention of someone you’ve spotted online or only just started talking to
When to use: Any time you wish to spark someone interest and make sure that a connection based on a shared vision is established
Candle/crystal magick: Light a gold candle for sparks of interest to fly. Charge a turquoise to allow your true spirit to shine through from the very first email.
Archangel Anael Tarot Affirmations
Affirmation: I attract a loving partner who is as madly in love with me as I am with him/her
Tarot card: 2 of Cups
Zodiac correspondence: Venus (Archangel Anael) in Cancer (Archangel Gabriel)
Intent: To manifest a love relationship
When to use: Full Moon in any of the Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), Midsummer or any time you feel the need
Candle/crystal magick: Light a pink candle for romance and new love. Charge a rose quartz to carry with you, and to remind you to be the love you seek
Affirmation: I attract a lover (or lovers) into my life by the force of my irresistible mojo
Tarot card: The Empress
Zodiac correspondence: Venus (Archangel Anael)
Intent: For a woman to increase her charisma and pulling power
When to use: New Moon in Taurus/Beltane or any time the need arises
Candle/crystal magick: Light a bright pink/magenta candle for romance and heightened sexual charisma. Charge malachite or jewelry with malachite for increased pulling power. This card can also be used to create an affirmation for anyone wishing to conceive: I invoke my goddess-given power to bring forth new life.
Affirmation: I joyfully settle down with the love of my life
Tarot card: 4 of Wands
Zodiac correspondence: Venus (Archangel Anael) in Aries (Archangel Camael)
Intent: To find a romantic partner to move in/settle down with or to deepen the commitment in an existing relationship. Be careful in the case of the latter though. If they have no intention to settle down with you, using this affirmation will soon make your differences apparent!
When to use: Any Full Moon or any Friday on a New or Waxing Moon.
Candle/crystal magick: Light a pink candle for romance and commitment. Charge a rhodonite to help manifest a stable, committed relationship grounded in the knowledge that this is what you deserve and that you won’t settle for less.
Affirmation: I am happily married the love of my life
Tarot card: The Hierophant
Zodiac correspondence: Taurus (ruled by Venus/Archangel Anael)
Intent: If finding someone to marry is paramount
When to use: Ostara/Beltane or New/Full Moon in Taurus
Candle/crystal magick: Light a pink candle for romance and commitment. Charge a red garnet or piece of jewelry that represents tying the knot. You can also combine the 2 of Cups, 4 of Wands and The Hierophant for a powerful love Tarot spell and use the following affirmation: A loving life partner (or soul mate if you prefer) is now here for a happy marriage and settling down together.
Archangel Camael Love Tarot Affirmations
Affirmation: I enjoy a dynamic relationship full of sexual chemistry
Tarot card: 2 of Wands
Zodiac correspondence: Mars (Archangel Camael) in Aries (Archangel Camael)
Intent: To find a relationship that is interdependent rather than codependent and that can help both people grow. Ideal for anyone who self-employed and seeking a romantic partner who will also be in business with them
When to use: New Moon in Aries or any time the need arises. For spellcasting choose a Tuesday near a Full Moon in any of the Fire signs.
Candle/crystal magick: Light a red candle for passion and vitality. Charge a fire agate to attract a dynamic partner as well as to maintain sound personal boundaries in the process.
Affirmation: My ability to attract a romantic/sexual partner grows stronger day by day
Tarot card: The Emperor
Zodiac correspondence: Aries (Archangel Camael)
Intent: For a man to increase his pulling power
When to use: New Moon in Aries or any time the need arises. For spellcasting choose a Tuesday near a Full Moon in any of the Fire signs.
Candle/crystal magick: Light a red candle for increased sexual mojo and charisma. Charge a ruby to magnetise a lover (or more than one!) to you.
Affirmation: My virility, fertility and stamina increase day by day
Tarot Card: The Tower
Zodiac correspondence: Mars (Archangel Camael)
Intent: Male fertility, sexual health and libido
When to use: Every day (just kidding). On a New Moon in a Fire Sign or on a Tuesday when the Moon is Full or Waxing.
Candle/crystal magick: Light a red candle for a strong male libido and increased fertility. Charge a red jasper with the same intent.
Bonus Archangel Gabriel Love Tarot Affirmation
Affirmation: Love is in me and all around me. The more love I radiate from my core, the more love returns to me.
Tarot Card: Ace of Cups
Zodiac correspondence: The Moon (Archangel Gabriel)
Intent: To become a more loving person so that you can begin attracting better relationships, whether it be for love or friendship. This is one of the best affirmations you can use on a daily basis because it allows your true, loving nature to shine through and makes life more enjoyable for you and everyone around you.
When to use: Every day (NOT kidding).
Candle/crystal magick: Light a white candle and meditate on the purity of your heart chakra.
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Great post Lisa!
Can’t wait for the next ones 🙂
Maybe one to free yourself from your fears, self-doubts and worries about the outcomes of situations? 🙂
Namaste
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Thanks, Ana. I’m on a bank holiday weekend and have no idea what the Angels want me to blog about next week… but anything is possible! 🙂