Is It Love Or Is It Karma? 7 Signs That It Is Time To Cut The Cords

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Have you found yourself in a relationship with someone that you feel irresistibly drawn to in spite of feeling awful around them most of the time? It feels so fated that you tell yourself it is meant to be. You keep splitting up and getting back together… Or, when it is a friendship, you find yourself being used, subtly put down or back-stabbed yet unable to let go… Whatever the nature of the relationship, they are abusive… or you both are, as you seem to trigger the absolute worst in each other. What is this all about? Do you have to stick around until one of you fall down dead? Or is there perhaps a better way…? This kind of relationship is karmic in nature and yes, you were in fact fated to meet up. But that doesn’t mean you have to put yourself in harm’s way until you have resolved your karma. Once you realise the purpose of the relationship, you can begin seeking safe distance so that you can process your own lesson. It shouldn’t be that difficult once you understand that it is not about them, it is about a reactive pattern or habit within you. Anything else, you can leave to grace to work out once you have established that you cannot communicate with the other person in a sane, safe and constructive manner. Here are 7 signs that it is time to cut the cords: * They turn your weaknesses against you * Instead of mutual support, it becomes more about apportioning blame * You feel you would die without them or that their existence depends on yours – ‘need’ rules rather than love * You are on a constant emotional roller coaster ride with extreme highs and lows * Your adrenal glands start working overtime when they are near (fear physiology can lead to great sexual thrills and erotic enslavement) * They have verbally or physically abused you * They have taken advantage of you Please note that a couple of these signs are enough… They are clear signals to let go and move on with your life or the toxicity and abuse will keep building. Also, please know that it is OK to let go even if you are not clear on what your past life connection was. However, if you are keen to find out, I am happy to do a reading on this for you. Sometimes understanding facilitates letting go. Or if you prefer to read for yourself, you can learn more about the Karmic Tarot cards HERE. How to cut the cords: * Cut all contact with the other person and delete/block them from all your social networks, phone etc. * Forgive yourself for the reactive pattern you slipped into. * Forgive the other person (easy once you realise that they were just as reactive as you). * Call on Archangel Michael to clear...

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Karmic Grace Past Life Tarot Spread and Sample Reading

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Karmic Grace Past Life Tarot Spread and Sample Reading

Past Life Astrology by Judy Hall is blowing my mind a little right now with how accurately it relates to my own life experience and my more or less educated guesses on what is karmic in this in this incarnation. I feel I finally have a chance to get a handle on what is what through reading this book and carefully studying my own birth chart. Not only that, I believe this information translates beautifully into an opportunity to delve even deeper through targeted readings on each of the different types of personal karma. Other types of karma are group karma, collective karma (global) and cosmic karma. The different types of personal karma are, according to Judy Hall: Merit karma (reward) Recompense karma (repayment) Redemptive karma (sacrifice for the greater good) Retributive karma (an eye for an eye) Attitudinal karma (ingrained beliefs) Organic karma (karma carried by the body) Karmic treadmill (addictions etc) Work karma (pull toward certain types of work) Symbolic karma (bed wetting for being a witch ducker, for instance) Communication karma (mocking others in past lives etc) Sins of omission and comission (difficult repeat life lessons) Relationship karma (not getting over someone) Pacts and promises (religious vows etc) Karma in suspension (not possible to resolve in this lifetime) Karma in the making For what planetary and house aspects refer to each of the different types of karma, you will need to study the information in the book. I have listed the various types of personal karma so that you can choose the area that you feel is most heavily impacting your life at this moment in time to read on. How can reading on personal karma help you grow? It can help you grow by understanding exactly how this karma is playing out in your life today and also what grace you can call on to resolve the karma permanently once you have done all in your power to work things out. This is especially true about relationship karma. I have met countless people who have been pulled into karmic relationships that leave them feeling as if they are banging their heads against the wall since there is no way forward for resolving things with the other person (ah, yes – free will!). The spread that unfolded itself in my mind after reading this is quite deck specific but feel free to choose other decks that call to you. However for the Past Life position, I do recommend the Past Life Oracle Cards which I find spookily accurate. For the Grace position, I have chosen to read with the Whispers of Love Oracle, which is wonderfully loving and gentle… just like grace click to enlarge and print out THE KARMIC GRACE TAROT SPREAD – SAMPLE READING ON PACTS AND PROMISES Bonefire Tarot, Past Life Oracle and Whispers of Love Oracle   1. How this karma is...

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The Karmic Cards and Their Meanings for Love & Romance Tarot Readings

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In last week’s 11 Keys – An Advanced Love Tarot Spread, I briefly mentioned the ‘Karmic Cards’ and I was asked by a couple of people to extrapolate on this. Essentially, these are the cards that indicate issues either carrying over from a past life (or many past lives) or lessons pre-agreed upon in the Life Between Lives. For those of you interested in exploring Life Between Lives, I recommend the book Journey of Souls by Dr Michael Newton. A while back, I created a Past Life Connection Tarot spread. Before laying the cards out for this type of reading, I like to do a 9 Square to see if there is an indication of a past life connection. I want at least two of the cards listed below to show up. The High Priestess corresponds to the Moon which shows what soul energy a person is carrying forward into this incarnation from past lives. Ancient subconscious patterns may be at work when this card shows up. Surrounding cards reveal more. Look out for at least one other karmic card to confirm that this concerns a shared past life in a relationship reading. The Wheel of Fortune can indicate a karmic connection and cycles of reincarnating together. It’s a sign of belonging to the same soul group or circle of souls that keep showing up together on earth to learn pre-agreed upon lessons as well as to resolve any lingering karma. It’s a neutral karmic indicator which means that you and the other person are simply here to grown and learn together. Justice indicates a need to rebalance karma. If this card shows up with one other karmic card as well as the Hierophant, marriage between you and this soul mate is literally in the cards. The Devil could mean that one of you carries a heavy karmic debt toward the other person. The expression in the current lifetime usually creates a pattern of co-dependency to make sure these two are ‘glued together’ until the issue is forgiven/resolved one way or another. It can feel almost impossible to leave a relationship like this. However, there is no need to feel trapped. The door swings open quite easily once we forgive the other person. The Tower is akin to The Devil but usually carries more physical violence. Once it’s done, it’s done. You can’t escape it but it doesn’t tend to drag on like The Devil karmic space. The Moon is another neutral Past Life connection indicator but it shows an ancient connection with many shared past lives and coming closer to having resolved karmic issues. However, as you push toward the finish line, the challenges get tougher, so the relationship connection/issues indicated by this card can be tainted by deep fear. Judgement indicates that you have a karmic relationship with someone who is important in terms of your individual life...

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